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    Mar 15, 2011, 09:03 AM
    I need professional help climaxing?
    Im 22 and I have never had an orgasm or come at all, I get extremely wet and I have felt a really good sensation that last a few seconds when my clitoris gets stimulated, so I guess that's what it feels to have a small orgasm... but I don't think I am capable of coming, I don't squirt, or anyting similar... I feel
    Great in bed with my guy and I don't have any inhibitions whatsoever,I'm up for anything that pleases him and me... sometimes I feel like I am going to climax( or pee , or a werid sensation) but the feeling goes away
    Without any feeling of "euphoria", tingliness, or sensiiveness.. (and then I get all dry up).Please help! I am freaking out because I think I will never climax, or come with my man, and he is a lot older and has asked several times if I like him because I never come,and that is frustrating for me and him... or at least he doesn't know if I do... I'm freaking out please help!!
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    Mar 15, 2011, 09:27 AM

    Few women "squirt" so if you are looking for that as a sign, please research it further.

    Also seldom do the man and women ever climax at the same time, thus why foreplay and after play are important
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    Mar 15, 2011, 09:39 AM

    You may be having an orgasm and not realize it. An orgasm doesn't have to shake the rafters or be like Sally's restaurant fakey one in When Harry Met Sally. How do you know you aren't having one?

    The more you think about it and worry about having one, the less likely you will be to have one ("I am freaking out..."). Get lost in the moment and allow each of your senses to get fully involved in the sexual encounters.
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    Mar 15, 2011, 09:42 AM

    Sex is about the journey, and NOT the destination.

    The more you think about an orgasm, or are pressured to have one, the less likely you will be to even come close to having one.

    Can you bring YOURSELF to orgasm? If not, that's where you start. You can't show someone else how to touch you if you don't know how to touch yourself.
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