Dear Smply_wundrin_y,
I am in a similar situation but on the other side. I have feelings for a friend of mine and would love to tell her, but I am afraid of rejection and the possible ramifications that come along with being rejected by a close friend. This is the main reason I have never had a real relationship. It sounds like the boy you are talking about might be in the same boat. He may really care for you but just be too worried to show it. Try noticing his behavior around you and see if he smiles more, etc. If so, I would just ask him. If he is a shy boy, he will either be overjoyed by your asking him or at worst, would be slightly embaraased but flattered that you think about him that way. (Excuse the grammar trainwreck that was that last sentence :P) anyway, I wish you the best of luck!
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