[badlyf14]

There is this guy in my class... he is the cutest and coolest type guy in my class and he is very popular... n I am the only girl in class... but everyone knows that he likes a girl who is a grade younger... I don't understand if I like him or not because every time he says anything I smile... I feel nervous when he talks to me and I never miss a chance to talk to him... but at the same time I don't feel the way I used to feel around a guy I liked for over 1 year(though I never spoke to him... I felt I had to move on... it was hard but I got through)(I don't like him anymore) I feel that the feeling I got when I saw the guy I liked for over an year is like what you can true liking so I'm very confused please help!!

[kaylaluv]

I think you might like him. Try flirting with him before him and that other girl hook up. See what happens.. maybe he'll flirt back :)

[Suzzie_lou]

Dear Badlyf14,

Your teachers must go absolutely crazy when they read your work. I have never seen that many ellipses (three full stops in succession) in such a short paragraph. Get your act together!

Why do you seem to care as to the fact that he is popular, unless you are a completely shallow proverbial "mean girl" why would that actually effect your views on him? Secondly, every time you meet someone you like things will be different, just because he doesn't make you feel exactly the same as the guy you supposedly liked a year ago doesn't mean that you don't like him.

Though having said that, the fact that you don't seem to actually get to know these guys personally before you decide whether you like them or not shows that you clearly do not know what it is actually like to like someone for who they are. You are simply attracted to this guy for looks and what seems to be the kind of type he is.

Go on a date and find out if you actually have real feelings for this guy and take it from there fool. But for the love of God, make sure that you look good if you want to date him, because if he is as cool as you make him out to be, he will not want an insecure girl. He will want someone who knows what they want and where to take things!

Yours sincerely Suzzie Lou (AKA Biff Johnson)

[badlyf14]

Dear Suzzie Lou,
Thanks for the advice but the reason I said that he was popular and all that is to convey that many girls like him. I know this guy quite well, I was too shy the last time. I talk to him everyday in class. I don't judge people by the way they look.

kaylaluv, thanks.

[kaylaluv]

Anytime, good luck with him :)