Do you mind if I ask how old both of you are and how you usually see each other? It can help to get a clearer understanding of the relationship.
It does sound like he thinks of you as a friend and not a girlfriend. He may be using you to know more about the other female. He may be using discussions about her as something to talk about with you.
If you want to see if there is more than friendship with him, ask him out and make it clear that it is a date not just 'hanging out'. Talking to him is the only way you are going to end the confusion.
Tell him that if he wants to know about the 'girl you know' to talk to her. It's the only way he will know what she thinks.
Are you certain that you 'like' him as more than a friend or are the feelings more of a very good friendship? Sometimes, it is easy to mistake the two.
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