[jnprasadam]

Hai sir,


This is JNPrasad from hyderabad, andhra pradesh, india. My parents have seen one girl for me for marriage. Her name malati. Malati parents died when she was small . She is staying with her brother. After some days my parents not accepting the relation ship and saying that ( she have no parents and what type of girl she is. She might have some bad relations with some one). But sir we both loved each other. She is very poor, and she always stays at home, no cell, no talking to others, going to temples, etc. we both met personally at her place . She is good.

My parents are saying that malati is coming only by seeing our money. She is upset, still she is saying that I don't need your money, and earn 10000 rupees per month and keep food for me and see me with love. We both are deep in love.

My father is a heart patient and my family is emotionally blackmailing me to not to marry her. If you marry her my heart will broke and I will die. They are not understanding my problem. I don't need there money just I am asking I want to marry her. If I won't marry her she will die. Since 2 months we are not talking to each other because of conditions applied by my parents and her relatives. She is still waiting for me. I have information that she is not eating anything, not working anything at home, always crying.

Our both opinion is to try for aceptance of parents and marry. But my parents looking matches for me. They are not accepting. By emotional blackmail I am getting disturbed. I want to marry her in temple.

Please give me some advice. Waiting for your reply.


Thanking you sir.
J.N.Prasad
INDIA

[ironhide262]

How old are you J.N.

[jmooney527]

Your father won't die if you marry her... your family is guilting you into this! Don't listen to your family, listen to your heart. Be with who you want to be with... it is your life, not theirs!

[sharper11]

If you love her, follow your heart. Your parents may not accept her, and that is something you (and they) will have to deal with.

Your parents say their hearts will break, but you cannot control that.

You obviously care very much for your lady, do what you think is best.

Good Luck.

[talaniman]

Marry your girl, and neither of you will have parents. Marry their choice for you, then neither of you will be happy. Some choice, but its yours to make because its you who will be blessed, or suffer from your actions.

How old are you both? Can you live without your families? Safely?