[msh10]

I know I can't expect a precise answer for this question ,but the sort of situation I am in I would settle for any thing that makes sense

So my ex broke up with me in December because she wanted to be single ,after on and off contact for a month I decided to go on no contact forever but because we work together and we also go to same school it was practically impossible to not to see her at all but any how I managed to do that for a month ,

I had lot of prank calls during this time where I would get calls from private numbers but no one would talk, and I also received one on valentines day, I know for a fact that it was her... but anyhow I didn't respond and kept doing my thing... somehow after 4 days though we started talking again as she accused me of talking about her to people at work but by the end of conversation she apologized to me and said that she wanted to be in good terms with me, that was three weeks ago...

Even though we were in " good terms" ,we still weren't talking or anything just last week when I uploaded a picture with some girl on Facebook I received another prank call from private number from some chick telling me how she met me in some summer festival and we exchanged our numbers there but she was taking crap because I never met any girl with that name in any summer festival.. and moreover her voice was 95% similar to my ex's best friend ,I hung up after a while...

Then same weekend it was one of our work mates birthday party and because he is also one of my best mate I was always going to attend it and because my ex wasn't invited I was looking forward to have a good night but she rocked up there uninvited with another girl from work who was invited, so I left the party in about an hour and made up an excuse of other party and the guy I went to the party with wanted to stay so I left him behind with my ex and two other girls from work,

I felt good after I left but as the night passed on I started feeling restless about why she came to the party where she wasn't invied and what she was going to do after party and all that, so next afternoon I called her up and asked her if she wanted to catch up to which she responded in positive so told her the day and time and she said that she ll let me know if she could on that particular time ,any how she couldn't make it because she had an appointment with dentist and that was def not an excuse because she has had this dental procedure going on for a bit now ,anyway I told her to get some rest,

Next day I sent her a text in evening saying "feeling better" to which she replied" yeah not bad thanks for asking " and I replied all right take care... and she sent me a text after 10 min asking" is everything all good with you " and I replied saying you all good ,heading to gym now ,got work later , how was your day? " to which she never replied "

What I want to know is she playing hard to get or is she just a d.. k tease, should I totally ignore her and go back to total no contact , I mean I am not going to worry about contacting her aging because I gave her a chance ,but if she ll prank me again I am def going to take some legal action, she is 20 but she is so immature, what do you all think?

[Jake2008]

Raf- trust your instincts!!

This girl is bad news, and, I agree with you that she is likely behind the prank garbage and creating drama behind your back in front of your face sort of thing.

Please don't fall for this.

You were doing so well with the no contact, and feeling good about not being dragged into communicating with her, and for all the right reasons I might add.

My advice to you, is to let this fish go back to sea. Stay on solid ground, and find someone who is more mature, and more compatible.

[mmresd]

Don't let her drag you back in man. Keep up the no contact and find someone who isn't going to be toying with you.

Good luck,

Javi

[talaniman]

I think she just wants you close and confused as an option for when life is slow, myself.

Whatever is on her mind, DOESN'T MATTER! What matters is what you do, and to avoid confusion leave her alone and go back to doing your thing and don't be sucked into the drama of being a friend.