[toknong]

Hi me and my girl been together for 9 months leave in partner now I caught someone text her in her phone saying. We can have no string attached her answer is yes then the answers back saying OK I'm going to be at my house holla at me aite muah muah. Now I want to know if my instinct is true if she **** this guy.

[redhed35]

If someone is looking for no strings attached and she said yes, chances are its in her mind, HOWEVER, that does not mean she has done anything about it..

Talk to her and ask what's going on, you were snooping in her phone so there are trust issues anyway.

No trust no relationship.

[toknong]

I confront her already about it she lie to me and giving me lot of details. At first she said its her best friend which is a girl text that to her.and two days later she tell me a guy from work they been txting one week already and I know the guy first she said its only a text she didn't do anything and she saying she got tempted what she mean she got tempted I'm just confused she keep changing details.

[talaniman]

There is a lot of suspicion and mistrust so early in this very new relationship. That's not good at all. Especially since she is already tempted to cheat on you, and tried to lie about it.

I give this some second thoughts, followed by a very long talk. Whether you stay together, or leave, would depend on those talks.

[toknong]

That's what I did I told her I can't be with this relationship if I'm always paranoid because my guts is killing me all I want is to know the truth. Plus I talk to the guy who she txting with and he saying that message is from the movie no string attached. And my girl change the storie again before I talk to him she said to me its from the movie that message I don't get it if there's nthing happen between them why she keep changing details I don't get it! My guts is just killing me I think I need time to think.

[talaniman]

I think your gut is right, and maybe you should let them have each other.