Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    aishamuneer19's Avatar
    aishamuneer19 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
    New Member
     
    #1

    Mar 1, 2011, 02:51 PM
    Is He Gay?
    Hi ,

    My Fiance's best friend and only friend of 6 years,felt that he was cheated when we got engaged,because he thought they were in love and a couple.
    Also he had no typical male interest,like cars or sports.He was tooo particular about my appearance,including clothes ,shoes ,hair ,makeup etc.
    justcurious55's Avatar
    justcurious55 Posts: 4,360, Reputation: 790
    Ultra Member
     
    #2

    Mar 1, 2011, 02:54 PM

    No one but him can answer. Feeling betrayed when a close friend ends up with a significant other, while unfortunate, is not uncommon. And not being a stereotypical guy does not necessarily mean he is gay.
    Fr_Chuck's Avatar
    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692
    Expert
     
    #3

    Mar 1, 2011, 04:27 PM

    God yes, any man who can't use power tools, work on cars and won't sit and watch football all day Sunday has to be gay.

    Where do you all get these silly ideas, you can be a pro football player and be gay, and very manly men love to cook, hate football

    And to me a real man will care what he looks like, and how they dress

    But what makes him gay or at least bi sexual is his desire to have sex with other men.

    If he loves you and is bi, that does not mean he will cheat it only means he will stop seeing or dating anyone else male or female.
    ken007nielsen's Avatar
    ken007nielsen Posts: 288, Reputation: 211
    Full Member
     
    #4

    Mar 3, 2011, 06:47 AM
    Haha, can't use power tools, you just made my day :)


    martinizing2's Avatar
    martinizing2 Posts: 1,868, Reputation: 819
    Expert
     
    #5

    Mar 3, 2011, 07:10 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by aishamuneer19 View Post
    Hi ,

    My Fiance's best friend and only friend of 6 years,felt that he was cheated when we got engaged,because he thought they were in love and a couple.
    A couple of what?

    Why , did he think they were a couple?
    That is a strange conclusion to come to for some one
    Who has been best friends for six years.
    But does not necessarily mean he's gay.

    Have you asked the parties involved?
    They would be the ones to really know , and
    Does it really matter what his friend feels?
    What does your fiancé say?'

Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions

 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

I am gay and I kept convincing myself that I am straight... I don't want to be gay [ 7 Answers ]

I am 22 year old. I am indian and being an indian and that too gay is a big problem. Its look down upon. I kept convincing myself that I am at least bisexual but I am not. If my family would find out they will be broken down to pieces. I felt like killing myself before telling it to anyone. I just...

I'm 15 and I think I'm gay. I don't like girls at all. Am I definitely gay? [ 6 Answers ]

I've never said anything about being gay to anyone before. I've never said anything on any sites either. I'm pretty sure I'm gay and feel like I'm ready for a boyfriend but I don't want to come out of the closet as I'm not sure how my family and friends would react. I know I'm young but not sure...

Do I start with my gay friend or my gay friends crush? [ 4 Answers ]

How it happened: Me an my gay best friend Bill(names have been changed) are in the same class as his crush, Dave a feminine guy that everyone likes. He's funny an the perfect guy bill has been waiting for(he tells me but I've heard it before:rolleyes: ) and when bill gets giddy I get giddy. ...

My gay friends tell me my new love interest is gay [ 11 Answers ]

Hello everyone. Im new to this service. I am a 32 year old female, who has been dating a 26 year old guy for about 2 months. I met him about a year ago, and up until 2 months ago, really only hung out with him with our other friends. We both knew there was something there, had not had the...

My family thinks that being gay is wrong and I'm gay! [ 5 Answers ]

K well I'm gay and my family thinks that being gay is wrong.They want me to get married to someone who is also portuguese or french and start a family.I told my auntie and she was fine with it but she was worried something was going to happen to me.I want to tell my grandma who I absoulutly love...


View more questions Search