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SinGer1oo7 · Feb 28, 2011, 12:14 PM

We've been together for two years and things were great in the beginning. Now Im miserable all the time, he gets mad at every little thing I do, if I try to tell him that something's bothering me in the most tender way he still gets very upset with me like he doesn't want to hear it. Bottom line is things have changed.

He worked Saturday and Sunday and had Thursday and Monday off. He came to my dorm Saturday night and we did groceries. Then he went to bed early as usual, then we both had to work the next day (sunday) and didn't get to see each other till 10 at night but even then he was asleep. Then comes Monday morning his day off he wants to leave? I ask him to stay with me because he had no where to be nothing to do but he refused and was in a hurry to go I told him that if he walked out that door don't expect for things to be okay after wards he walked out anyway. Things just like thins have happened before but I never told him don't expect for things to be okay and I always picked up his phone call afterwards this time I've decided not too. I don't know how to fix this problem?

ken007nielsen · Feb 28, 2011, 12:29 PM

Are you sure it's a problem you want to fix if your miserable all the time? He doesent want to communicate, and sounds like you gave him a ultimatum when he walked out on you last time..

Seems to me this relationship is running on fumes, it's going to require a lot of work to get back to normal, and doesent seem like the two of you is up for it!

SinGer1oo7 · Feb 28, 2011, 04:08 PM

Yes I am sure I want to fix it, I tried to be nice and beg him to stay, it didn't work, so I tried to give him choices hoping he would choose to want to make me happy, I just don't know whether I'm handling it correctly? What bugs me is that I can't get through to him.

ken007nielsen · Feb 28, 2011, 04:49 PM

I'm sorry to tell you this, but if you can't get through to him, there's nothing you can do.

And the correct way to handle is to keep your cool, don't ever beg - I know it's hard but if you beg him, you lower yourself and he won't respect you as much.

There's only one way to get him back, and that is to leave him alone. Give him time to think of what he wants to do.

SinGer1oo7 · Feb 28, 2011, 11:56 PM

Thank you:-)

He was born and raised in Dominican Republic and I was born and raised in the USA, we are completely different in our ways and decisions maybe it just doesn't work with our personalities. It sucks because I love him, he's the only one I've ever loved

talaniman · Mar 1, 2011, 07:25 PM

You can't fix anything by yourself. So you may as well be by yourself. Don't you two go out and have fun together? If not, and you tried then maybe this love has fizzled out.