[lloydy02]

Sometimes when I go over to my parents friends house, their daughter comes round, but their son in law never comes over when I'm there, I know he works from home and that they live a few doors away so he has no reason not to come over as I know he doesn't play any sports or anything in the evenings, so is he avoiding me? Have I done something to make myself look foolish that I can't remember? Thing is I seen him at a party last December and as soon as he seen me there he came straight over and asked how I was. Any ideas on what's going on? Because its getting me down now.PS This guys normally lovely and I haven't had any bad words with him, so I don't understand it really. I know he's gone over once or twice when its just been her parents and my parents there. Thanks

[Cat1864]

How long ago did this start? Has it always been this way?

[lloydy02]

No it hasn't, it started a couple of years back I think, might be a bit longer, but I know that before they were married he used to say hi to me if I went over and he's was there, once they got married he spoke to me less if he seen me there, but since they have had a baby I barely see him although if she does come over whilst I'm there, nine times out of ten she brings their baby with them but not him. So now I barely see him and normally he doesn't talk, although I must admit at the party it was the first time were both on our own for a minute, both partners were there, but mine was saying hello to friends and his was getting a drink from the bar. Just wondered if I did or said something stupid, the daughter is also one to look down her nose at you and I'm the kind of girl who worries about what people think.

[talaniman]

Maybe its time to stop worrying so much about what other peoplle think. No telling what's on someone else's mind, or what they are going through.

Maybe she gives him hell when he is friendly with other females, who really knows but him.