[oliviayao]

How can I get a guy to come back to me? I know that when we were together, he was EXTREMELY jealous and overprotective.. and I still love him so much, even though we haven't exactly communicated for 3 months. In the beginning, I used to be very clingy and annoying, but I've stopped. What can I do to get him to come back to me?

[SouthernBelle06]

Unfortunately, there is no magic answer to that often asked question. If there was, all of us on here would have had our exes back a long time ago. But since you know that you were clingy and annoying, stop that behavior for starters. Who broke up with whom here? If you broke up with him, you should work on yourself awhile, then you could try contacting him. If he broke up with you, you can't make him come back. He has to find that desire within himself if he misses having you in his life.

[Geoffersonairplane]

Who did the breaking up?

It will be much harder to get him back if he ended it since as southernebelle06 says, he will need to find that desire within himself and there will be very little you can do in that situation. If you ended it, then I would spend a little time working on yourself and then approach him in an open minded way. Bear in mind that if you ended it, it is likely he was hurt badly if he had feelings for you. It sounds like you both had insecurity issues anyway and some time alone may help you to work on these. That is not to say that insecurities are abnormal, I sometimes think everyone has them at some point in their lives, you are both human!

[Geoffersonairplane]

Some jealousy is healthy and shows you have feelings for another person yet there is a limit and excessive jealousy is not only unhealthy but very damaging to a relationship.

[talaniman]

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