[MissJordanx]

Well, first of all I'm fourteen. I liked this boy for ages and whenever I saw him, or even spoke to him, I got butterflies:) he made me so happy by just being around him. Now, we are going out and for some reason I just don't feel that way anymore. He always tells me that he loves me and I know he'd do anything for me. But do I love him? I'm so confused

[quiteconfused]

You always want something way more until you have it you probably just really like & care about him, but since you had to only be friends with him for a while before you started dating, it would be hard to say. But another thing is love doesn't just happen over night, it's a feeling that takes a while. So hun give it time & remember as much as you don't like hearing it you 14 & still young don't tie yourself to one person.

[Rachh.]

Well, I'm not sure if it's going to be any help, but I'm the same age as you, recently engaged and been with the guy for 6 months or just over, and I can safely say I'm in love, if you don't feel like you really love him, and you'll know in your own way, like you won't want to be apart from him and everything he does or says will make you happy, then maybe you haven't found the one. True love is hard to find, but when you find the one, he's definantly a keeper. <3

[justcurious55]

At 14, you don't even really know what love is. And you won't until much later in life probably.

And anytime you have to ask, the answer is no.