[anonymouse1]

I met a girl this weekend and I invited her to come hang out. She came over and we wound up having sex all night. Then we went back to work on this weekend job and we had to pretend to not be into each other so we didn't seem unprofessional. Then she came over again the next night and we had sex again. She mentioned something about she had been in a long relationship and she sort of liked two diff guys but was confused or something. Anyway she pressed the issue that she needed to talk to me about the situation. She kept backing down though, we texted that night and argued a little after I had to leave for my other job. Then we got everything OK again. We hung out a bit more Sunday at work and went to lunch together. Made out a little bit etc. she really didn't want anyone to know we were having sex or anything so I had to be careful what I said and I slipped a couple of times once out of spite and the other it just slipped. Then we finally wrapped on the job but it was super late. She was supposed to come over but didn't want to give me a ride so no one would suspect anything. Then she said she was going to chill in her bathtub a bit. Well she fell asleep in there and I think she did because we were exhausted and we did wrap pretty late and we had worked all day. I was under the impression she was coming over so yeah I tried to call her several times to see what's up. She texted me this morning saying she fell asleep in the bathtub and that she woke up late and had obligations today and she will have to talk to me later. I tried to text her a bit this evening and I called a few times with no answer. So I am just going to back off a bit and see what's up. I mean have I come on too strong? What would be the best way to go about fixing that problem? I don't want her to have the wrong impression of me or anything and I do really like her so I would enjoy hanging out wth her more, but I am concerned that I may have screwed it up or something. If I did what steps should I take to fix it?

[mmresd]

I don't think there is anything to fix. So far... You two have had casual sex together a few times and haven't even discussed a relationship. You are making it sound like you two are taking a break when you two don't really even have anything concrete. Now, if you think there is more to it than just sex then talk to her and clarify things because personally Ithink you are coming on way too strong. Also, for something that has just been a quick fling (so far) you are sounding way too desperate. No one likes that, one thing is to want someone, another is to drool obsessive over them, so be careful are control your emotions to a very unknown situation. Enjoy the sex if it happens again, if not then go meet someone else... But let her come to you, not the other way around.

Good luck,

Javi

[anonymouse1]

Yeah I know I totally did come on a little too strong I am going to totally back off now and leave it be because I might just make things worse and she probably is pretty busy anyway so until I hear different I am going to just do my own thing I suppose

[talaniman]

Don't worry guy, when she needs to do the wild thing with you again she will call, or text.

A little booty is not love, so don't get so carried away.