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    tennisgrl100 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 21, 2011, 06:46 PM
    Me and my best friend like the same guy, what should I do?
    Last year, only she liked him and he even asked her out 3 times, but she said no. but this year, I like him too, and I'm in all of his classes. She's not in any of our classes though. My best friend always dyes her hair, but in 2 weeks she's going to get the dye removed. Then its going to be her natural hair color, which is blonde. And he likes blonde people. I don't want our friendship ruined and I know I will get jealous if she starts going out with him. He knows that both of us like him and she knows that I like him too. What should I do?
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    Feb 21, 2011, 09:37 PM

    Who does he like? You don't compete for a guys attention, either he likes you, or not. If your just friends, and he likes someone else, then you forget about him, and look elsewhere.
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    Feb 22, 2011, 10:57 AM
    I agree find someone who isn't trying to make you girls compete over him like he is some sort of price... Value yourself higher than the people around you. That's what you do.

    Good luck,

    Javi
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    Feb 25, 2011, 02:40 PM
    I strongly suggest to NOT go for this guy. You WILL lose or hurt your "best friend". . And only gain a boy who may or may not be into you.

    Always stay true to your friends.
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    Feb 25, 2011, 02:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Who does he like?? You don't compete for a guys attention, either he likes you, or not. If your just friends, and he likes someone else, then you forget about him, and look elsewhere.
    couldn't rep Tal... but from your mouth to everybody's ears (hopefully!)

    To be quite honest:

    1. why compete over a guy? There will be more guys along the way. Forget about him!

    2. Value your best friend over this guy. In the long run it will NOT be worth it for the two of you to compete over the same guy.
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    Jan 7, 2012, 08:02 PM
    Go for it, make your move before she gets the chance, if she's really your true friend she'd unserstand that you liked him a lot... and beside she did say no to him three times.

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