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Fancheah · Feb 18, 2011, 02:14 PM

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Fancheah · Feb 18, 2011, 04:27 PM

Sorry, my daughter and her exboyfriend have 2 children ages 10 and 5 she has physical custody and he is supposed to have visitation in the summertime and my daughter is supposed to be with them, during these visits. He is very ,manipulative and a huge control freak it's either his way or no way. My daughter has bent over backwards wanting to keep her family together, he came back into my daughters life making her think he alsobwanted to keep the family together I have never trusted him and didn't want my daughter totally under his influence (my daughter never gets in trouble unless he is around. My husband and I have had some suspicions recently as he has been acting strange, he told my daughter he had to go to court in Florida and that he wanted to take the younger child with him so he could see his other Grandmother and that they would be returning home to Pennsylvania on Monday February 21st. My daughter just got a text from him saying he wasn't bringing the 5 year bold back until my daughter has gotten a job and moved out and that if she brought the police into it he would get her thrown back into jail it seems he thinks he has something on her and has been doing this to her for along time that's the kind of person he is. He sold his car and quit his job here, he has had this planned for sometime. My granddaughter has an operation coming up next week and he took off with her little brother. He never had a court date down there I checked it out when my daughter told me what was going on. She is terrified he will take off with her son and we will never see them again. I told her he is violating the custody agreement and can be charged with several crimes he thinks he has the advantage because he has her so scared. He has lied to his son telling him he will be home in 3 days and we know he won't what do we do

ScottGem · Feb 18, 2011, 05:11 PM

Does she still have that text? If so, she can take it to court and try to have him cited for contempt of court. The problem is, she would probably have to go down to FL and retrieve the son.

You said have your daughter "thrown back in jail"? Has she been in jail? What for?

Fancheah · Feb 18, 2011, 05:56 PM

She has saved the text. Going to Florida won't be a problem. She did have to go to jail in 2008, he got her to call prescriptions into a pharmacy so he could turn around and sell them, they have both had drug problems she has been in a program since that time but he is still using I know this because I have caught him stealing my mother's prescription she had for Percocets and Oxycontin and I have also caught him smoking marijuana. We had told him we wouldn't tolerate this in our house nor we would allow him to jeopardize my daughters life anymore, which is why we think he pulled this off, he knows we were on to him and wanted to get back to Florida before I

Fancheah · Feb 18, 2011, 05:58 PM

Could get my daughter to see him for what he really is, which wevthink she has finally seen the light

ScottGem · Feb 18, 2011, 06:00 PM

You will need more proof than your testimony. If you can't prove something according to lawful rules of evidence, that you should not make the accusation.

If your daughter can prove she is clean, they she should be OK. Has the father given your daughter the address where he is in FL? If he is hiding their son from her, he may be guilty of parental kidnapping.

Fancheah · Feb 18, 2011, 06:36 PM

She can prove she's clean that was 1 of the conditions when she asked to stay with us,so she gets tested every other week, and my Granddaughter had the address of her other Grandmom but he ripped that page out of her book we just found it today when we were looking for it any advice is greatly appreciated. And I know I have to have solid evidence just trying to give you some background. I wouldn't make a statement in court that would come back to bite my daughter if I didn't have solid evidence.

ScottGem · Feb 18, 2011, 06:39 PM

Well my advice still stands. Get a contempt of court citation issued and use it to recover the child.

JudyKayTee · Feb 19, 2011, 08:16 AM

Agree 100% with Scott - go back to Court. If your daughter is clean she doesn't have to worry; if your daughter is NOT clean she still has to protect her child and take whatever the Court decides to "do" to her.

Someone must look after the children!