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skyris · Feb 15, 2011, 09:35 PM

Alty · Feb 15, 2011, 09:44 PM

Go see your doctor.

skyris · Feb 15, 2011, 09:45 PM

Yeah but its not pain full or anything ?

Alty · Feb 15, 2011, 09:47 PM

It should still be checked out.

If this is something you're concerned about, the only person that can help you is your doctor.

skyris · Feb 15, 2011, 09:50 PM

I'm not really concerned I just don't want my girlfriend or any other girl reject giving me action because of it

Alty · Feb 15, 2011, 09:54 PM

What kind of action are you talking about? At 14 any action you get shouldn't involve your penis.

If you've had sex then you'll definitely want to get this checked out, it could be more serious then you think.

Wait until you're older before trying to get "action" from girls. Any 14 year old girl that has half a brain will not give you any action anyway. You're too young.

skyris · Feb 15, 2011, 09:57 PM

Umm no I haven't had sex and have gotten (action) so far only oral but my girlfriend wants to have sex and I'm just trying to think of her and what I can do

Alty · Feb 15, 2011, 10:02 PM

The bump could be from the oral sex. Do you really think you can only get an STD from vaginal sex? That's not so.

I hate to tell you this, but when you say you haven't had sex, you're not telling the truth. They don't call it oral sex for no reason. Oral sex is sex.

You really should see your doctor, and if you and your girlfriend really care about each other, wait until you're old enough to take this step. How will you know when you're ready? When you can afford to live on your own, have a good job, and can afford a baby, that's when you're ready to have sex. Until then, keep it in your pants.

skyris · Feb 15, 2011, 10:05 PM

There was at lest half a year separating the last time I had oral then to when the dump came so I don't really think it was the oral sex

Alty · Feb 15, 2011, 11:13 PM

I can only give you advice, it's up to you to follow it or not. Your choice. Personally, if it was my reproductive organ, I wouldn't take any chances, but that's just me.

Also, it's bump, not dump.

martinizing2 · Feb 15, 2011, 11:43 PM

You would do well to listen to this lady, and follow her advice.

Wait a few years to have sex.
It is only the path to destroying your life right now.

Go see a doctor!
If you don't you may not have to worry about sex.

That's a real important body part to take chances with. So don't. Get it checked. Then put it in storage for a few years!!

skyris · Feb 16, 2011, 09:05 PM

I've been looking things up and people say that it might be from masturbating and will go away in time I think ill wait it out because like I said it was a really long time from when I've done anything with a girl that involves my **** might be an in grown hair also

Alty · Feb 16, 2011, 10:59 PM

If it's an ingrown hair then it can become infected if not treated.

Why are you so reluctant to go to a doctor? Are you willing to risk your health over this?

talaniman · Feb 17, 2011, 04:55 AM

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-...do-555102.html

Of course he doesn't want to see a doctor. Then he would have to tell his parents to take him, and they would want to know why. Plus as you can see he needs a good talking to about sex in general, because he wants to sleep with his sister.

I hope there is a strong male figure you can trust, and talk to, like your father, because there are a lot of things you need to know that you can't look up. A 14 year old with raging hormones has no excuse when it comes to learning what a man needs to know to take care of himself, and avoid causing problems, because he doesn't know about his body, and his urges.

Ignorance is no excuse.