[adam_89]

Ouch that is pretty crappy.

Sorry Sunny.

I could imagine that would hurt, it makes it seem like there is no trust there on his part. What is up with that? Is he being guilty of something?

[88sunflower]

Funny he has been weird with me lately. I have been questioning him a lot. Not that he is up to something but if he wanted to keep going forward.

His excuse for looking at first was to see my pictures. Hmmm well its not in the received calls log! Then he said he did it because I came home and have been crying all weekend about being laid off but haven't done anything to collect my checks. That has anything to do with what in my phone? GGrrr... I have nothing to hide I leave it around all the time. I never even have it with me. It's the fact he did it secretly. Then lied. Wow and I was so happy thinking we were doing well. I guess its just a bump today. Makes me angry though.

[adam_89]

Well, dop whatever makes you happy Sunny because that's what you are is a big burst of sunshine!

If you take it as a bump in the road and just keep on moving, them keep on trucking hun. You just need to be happy and you deserve happiness.

I'm sorry he done that, he really shouldn't have but maybe, and hopefully he learned his lesson.

[88sunflower]

Yep I am having a beer. Lol

I am sure for one reason or another I deserved it.

I am hating this no job thing. But I usually spend an hour at the gym. But since I have no job I am working out over 2 hours or longer. I am loving it! Feels great.

How are you? Things going OK with the house and the issues you were having?

[adam_89]

Well, have 4 or 5 beers for me, I could use them to chill me out.
I am doing better, but still stressed about them. I keep having plans and they keep falling through but after tonight, all should be good.

I wish I had the motivation to go to the gym or to work out at all. When I work out, I never concentrate on losing weight I usually gain weight because I focus on muscle when I really shouldn't, haha.

[88sunflower]

Good. I hope it all works out for you.

I like going just for the me time and the stress relief. I was doing weights big time for a short while but stopped. I didn't like the clothes getting tight feeling. Even though it was for good reasons. I do bust on my abs though. Some small weights and major cardio. I am not over weight but I do enjoy it so I am going to keep at it as long as I can.

[adam_89]

A nice tight stomach looks good on a girl for sure. Around here it seems socially acceptable to be fat if you are a guy so I have kept the same weight for quite awhile but I am not happy with the way I look. I just don't know what to do because I have no motivation or mind set.

[88sunflower]

Its just habit for me now. If I don't have the motivation I just hop on a treadmill and drag butt. At least I am moving.

I would rather have a guy with some meat then nothing at all. I like a husky man for sure.

[Aurora_Bell]

Adam, I love to cook, so any excuse to whip up something different or new is a good excuse for me!

Sunny, I'm really sorry things are so tense for you right now. I really do hope things turn around for you. Hugs big time sweets.

[adam_89]

Yea know that is another bad thing, is 90% of women I know say they would rather have a guy like me than a skinny man. I don't know whaty has happened over time but it seems backwards.

What time is dinner ready Bella?

[88sunflower]

Adam, I love to cook, so any excuse to whip up something different or new is a good excuse for me!!

Sunny, I'm really sorry things are so tense for you right now. I really do hope things turn around for you. Hugs big time sweets.

Thanks bella. I just get worked up.

[smoothy]

Yea know that is another bad thing, is 90% of women I know say they would rather have a guy like me than a skinny man. I don't know whaty has happened over time but it seems backwards.

What time is dinner ready Bella?

So they can feel better when they plump up?

[smoothy]

Yea know that is another bad thing, is 90% of women I know say they would rather have a guy like me than a skinny man. I don't know whaty has happened over time but it seems backwards.

What time is dinner ready Bella?

So they can feel better when they plump up? After they get that ring on their hand in some cases? Trust me... I'm related to people that let themselves go after the wedding. More than a couple.


Yeah I need to lose a few myself. I CAN still see my feet and suasage (without a mirror) so I'm not THAT big.

[adam_89]

So they can feel better when they plump up? After they get that ring on their hand in some cases? Trust me....I'm related to people that let themselves go after the wedding. More than a couple.


Yeah I need to lose a few myself. I CAN still see my feet and suasage (without a mirror) so I'm not THAT big.

I can hear you there. I don't need a mirror yet either so I should be OK just as long as I don't go crazy.

That is a good explanation as to why my past coupld gfs were thin and then a couple months down the road, I gain nothing and they gain 40 lbs.

[88sunflower]

Yeah I need to lose a few myself. I CAN still see my feet and suasage (without a mirror) so I'm not THAT big.

That made me giggle. You said sausage.

I am not the norm for women. I was actually a size 10ish when I met my hubby. Now I average a 1-2 depending on the store. I guess I like to fight gravity. I kind wish her were more active with me but I am a big girl.

[Aurora_Bell]

Well I'm not telling y'all what size I am, Christmas was not kind to me... :D

Made Lasagna for dinner tonight. It was pretty good. I don't know if we would be very compatible Adam, the guys I date usually plumpen right up when they start dating me. I've maintained basically the same weight from my early 20's. I'm happy with the size I am now. I did join a gym and have been doing Hot Yoga. Holy crappola, that stuff is intense!

[88sunflower]

Bella I wish I loved cooking as much as you do. I guess its because I am not good at it. I don't think I am. When I try new things the hubby gets nervous.

Baking forget it! I can't even get box brownies to turn out.

[smoothy]

My wife still weighs what she weighed when we got married almost 20 years ago 110 lbs give or take a few (shes short). And yeah... she does work to maintain it. I'm the one that put on some weight over that time. But most of it upper body. And 4 inches on the waist.

[adam_89]

Well I'm not telling y'all what size I am, Christmas was not kind to me... :D

made Lasagna for dinner tonight. It was pretty good. I don't know if we would be very compatible Adam, the guys I date usually plumpen right up when they start dating me. I've maintained basically the same weight from my early 20's. I'm happy with the size I am now. I did join a gym and have been doing Hot Yoga. Holy crappola, that stuff is intense!

Ah no, I eat ver big meals all the time, and somehow don't gain much, hopefully I have reached my peak. We don't have to be a couple, you can just cook for me and as I can tell, you don't like bigger sized guys.

[88sunflower]

Well I'm not telling y'all what size I am, Christmas was not kind to me... :D

made Lasagna for dinner tonight. It was pretty good. I don't know if we would be very compatible Adam, the guys I date usually plumpen right up when they start dating me. I've maintained basically the same weight from my early 20's. I'm happy with the size I am now. I did join a gym and have been doing Hot Yoga. Holy crappola, that stuff is intense!

Size doesn't matter is what us girls say. (giggling)

Silly girl your so pretty in your pictures I am sure your just fine. Us girls have a bloated image of ourselves anyway compared to reality.

Now get cooking for adam and no flirting. I am the rightful owner of him and bear. I claimed them long ago. ;)