[Eletricgreen]

Im a tomboy, and I'm friends with the most popular kid in my class. I think people are jelous, but I'm pretty sure they are not. They backbite. They think I don't know but I do. I try and show, but I don't know how to. People are hating me. And they think they are so cool, and they're showing off. But I don't want to show off, I'm good at sports but people don't let mee join them in their sports. I feel like a stupid idiot. I need help.

[justcurious55]

What is backbiting?

Sometimes kids can just be mean. And maybe that's all this is, just them being mean. But are you sure you're not the problem? I'm not saying you are. But it can never hurt to take a look at yourself and ask yourself if there's something you're doing to keep people away. For example, are you sure you don't act like you're better than them and have an attitude because you're friends with the popular kid and good at sports? If you really think about it, and can still honestly say that you don't have an attitude or act like you're better than other people, then it's probably just them being mean kids. Which is unfortunate and happens sometimes. Best thing to do is try to make other friends or stick with the ones you've already got.

[adviceishere]

back biting=== saying bad things behind someone's back I think...

[adviceishere]

Being in a group or clique at school or workplace has its positives and negatives... on the positive side you belong and always have friends around you, or "friends" should I say... one the negative side, you usually can't leave that group for fear of being bullied, these groups are usually mean to others in school which blackens your name too whether you're a nice person or not, people will get the wrong idea of you.. seems this has happened, if you weren't a nice person you wouldn't care and ask for help, but you do need to look at yourself also and see if your doing things wrong, this group won't last forever and if you don't start to mix with the other kids you will end up with no one. These groups usually don't care a lot about the people that are in it, they're never usually real friends. Start making an effort to talk to others, maybe when you see someone alone you could keep them company and be genuine. Eventaully you'll bbe popular for having loads of friends, people that look up to them and admire them, that's what popular really is! Not a group! Have you ever heard of famous and infamous? Well right now you're the infamous one along with this group,