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confusedgirl166 · Feb 7, 2011, 01:52 PM

OK I have a boyfriend who treats me good one day and then all of a sudden he will start being mean I have no idea what to do because we live together and we're only 16... I care about him a lot and don't want to lose him but he keeps hurting me... we've been together for 2 years... n he's always saying after a fight so "what u going to do waste two years or what?"

All he does is fights with me then later tries to come up on me... what should I do please help me.. he always wants to talk **** n threatening me and yelling in my face for no reason I'm a kind hearted person that's why I kind of think that's why I'm still with him I don't know I just need advice or someone to talk to that knows about this stuff.

redhed35 · Feb 7, 2011, 01:56 PM

May I ask how it came about that your living together?

Your both young, and living together can put a huge strain on a relationship,his behaviour is hostile and for me at least, scary.

Can you move out?

confusedgirl166 · Feb 7, 2011, 02:00 PM

We moved together because we had no time for each other, and I don't know if I can move pit and go somewhere else. I'm just hurting and trying to do what's best.

Edited for chat speak, but will start deleting in the future. Trying to help you but that only goes so far.

redhed35 · Feb 7, 2011, 02:09 PM

I understand your trying to do the right thing, but sometimes, you have to do the right thing for you.

Maybe living together was not such a hot idea after all,at 16 you both should be enjoying time with your friends, dating, falling in love for the first time,good things, fun things, not dealing with rows and being scared and confused.

If he's threatening you things have taken a turn for the worst.

You know, its not giving up, its taking care of yourself,its being mature and knowing when its time for space.

talaniman · Feb 7, 2011, 03:52 PM

I think you better start looking for a better place to live because this is not a healthy environment for you. You have little or no experience and I can only imagine how you support yourselves. I suspect you are living with his parents.

Living together at 16 is crazy, and why can't you just go home, and get your education and have fun like girls your age are supposed to be doing? That's what would be best for you, and your future.

Kids playing house never works out very well.

And chat/text will get you deleted and thats another reason to go home, and get your education.