[ssambica]

I am 24 yrs old hindu girl, I am love with a boy who is 6 months older than me and from different catse. Now the problem here is my parents hate love marriages, my mom don't agree for inter caste marriages,but my boy friend is well settled person. Now please suggest me how I can tell my parents about my love and how can I convience them?

[J_9]

Please be patient. This is a universal website with many of the members residing in the US, and it is the middle of the night here. We are all volunteers here as well.

When people wake up and have the time to get online, I'm sure you will receive some responses to your question.

[talaniman]

Have your parents met him? That would be where I started. Is the counsel of a respected Hindu person available? That would also be an avenue to pursue. How do his parents feel?

[Fr_Chuck]

Has the boy ( or perhaps the elder member of his family) came to speak to your father about arranging the marriage.

Even if there is "love" would the boy not respect customs to at least make proper contact attempts first before other actions are considered