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    badtzjm Posts: 6, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 29, 2011, 09:45 AM
    Can't orgasm from intercourse?
    I'm 23 years old and have been sexually active since I was 17y/o. I have only had one or two orgasms from vaginal intercourse before my current boyfriend. I can orgasm with clitoris stimulation without any problem with my boyfriend but I can't every really at all with vaginal. I've done it once or twice with him now, but for the most part if it's oral then yes I would orgasm. We have sex pretty much everyday a couple times a day at that as well. Our sex is outstanding and I love every minute of it. I got used to the fact that I can't orgasm vaginally as common as oral. Is there something wrong with me? Can someone give me some insight?
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    Jan 29, 2011, 10:25 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by badtzjm View Post
    Is there something wrong with me? Can someone give me some insight?
    Hello b:

    Nahhh... You're pretty normal... If you look around here, you'll find a zillion threads from women suffering from the same problem. Even pornography shows women manually stimulating themselves... So, if it's cool for a porn star to get herself off that way, it should be cool for you.

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    Jan 29, 2011, 12:09 PM

    It's not a problem, in fact it is very much the norm for most women. For the vast majority of women, having clitoral stimulation is what provides the necessary means for an orgasm.

    This can be achieved anyway you are comfortable with. If you feel the need to have more frequent orgasms during actual intercourse, try experimenting with position changes, and extra clitoral stimulation just prior to and during intercourse.

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