[tictacyork]

After we broke up, she said, "We will be bff." She began seeing other guys, but I didn't. Coz I still can't get over her. I really love her. I am still waiting for her to come back. I told her that I still love her but I will remain friends with her if that's what she wants. Even after we broke up, she still has sex with me. Every time we are alone at my place, we end up having sex. After several months, I asked her if she loves me. She answered that she only considered me as a friend. But when we are having sex, I asked her if she loves me. She said she does. Then I asked her to be back together, and she didn't say anything. I don't know which answer I should believe in. Any advise? Thank you.

[joypulv]

There are countless shades of love and like. Accept what she does, her actions, and stop bugging her about the word love. She is being very honest with you, and you need to realize that you just aren't the spark of romance she is looking for. She will either drop you when she finds it, or she will decide that feeling 'comfortable' like-love with you is just fine after all. Or she will yoyo back and forth as she goes from one guy to the next. Who knows? No one. You have made your feelings clear and so has she; take her as she is or leave.

[talaniman]

She loves having sex with you, and when having sex with you, she loves you. Otherwise you are just a friend. We call that friends with benefits. So don't get carried away, because she loves your benefits.

Enjoy it, or leave it alone, but keep it real, if you cannot handle that kind of physical love, stop having sex with her, and being her best "friend with benefits" forever.

[tom1777]

Are you stupid