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    confusedgirl Posts: 33, Reputation: 3
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    Jan 28, 2007, 08:51 PM
    I like my best friend
    So, me and this guy have been friends for about 8 months now, and for the past 5 months I have liked him, as the days go by my feelings for him get stronger and stronger. We are best friends and we have a group of friends we all hang out with all the time. He's now single and so am I. I'm not sure what I should do. And if a relationship is worth it at this point. I'm only 14 but I'm very mature for my age.
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    Jan 29, 2007, 07:03 AM
    Hi Confused!

    I noticed that you saw my advice to someone else and you think it is a good idea for you to use. Thanks for the positive feedback! It is appreciated.

    I decided to review other questions you have asked on this site so I could get a better handle on your personality.

    Yes, for 14 years old, you are very mature for your age. You have a good logical head on your shoulders and you are asking yourself the right questions. Be proud, girl! You have a headstart in life on a lot of other people your age.

    My advice to that other girl, definitely would be my advice to you at this point.

    Because of the maturity you have shown, the only other advice I would give to you is,
    Always, always, follow that gut feeling you get when you are unsure of something. You know, that little voice or feeling inside of you that tells you what you really need to do to handle a situation correctly? I know you get it. Don't question that voice, do what it is telling you to do. If you are uncomfortable in a situation, don't question it, get out of that situation. Take it from someone who has been around for a while. That gut feeling is your survival mechanism kicking in. It has saved me many times from situations that could have been disastrous to me.

    Hope this helps. Keep up the good logical thinking. You will go far in life.
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    Jan 29, 2007, 02:16 PM
    Thank you so much. I apreciate your help :D

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