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    lostsheep Posts: 12, Reputation: 3
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    Jan 27, 2011, 02:03 PM
    I am a Nanny my Employers exhusband is hitting on me what should I do?
    Ok I am twenty and I am a nanny for a little girl. Her mom is awesome a little bit of a helicopter mom but awesome none the less. She has an exhusband who comes to get the little girl a few days a week. Raised eyebrows, lingering looks have advanced into him asking me out for coffee. Hes attractive, but I don't want to offend my employer by accepting the advances of her ex husband. Yet I do not want to offend him either... WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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    Jan 27, 2011, 02:06 PM

    Tell him your loyalties belong to your employers. If you ever leave this job, you would be pleased to accept his invitation for coffee.
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    Jan 31, 2011, 08:15 PM

    So do you want to go to coffee with him ?
    Have you told your employer ?

    If you don't want to, have you just told him no.

    I will assume you are both adults, so you are free to have coffee or see him if you want to.
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    Feb 22, 2011, 04:44 PM

    The obvious answer is,
    "thank you, I'm very flattered, but I do not date the parents of the children I care for". It's hard to be offended by that.
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