[blake09]

I lived with my mom all my life and my dad took cutudy of me about 2 years ago. My mom is going to take my dad to court and have me tell the judge everything my dad does to me. He doesn't hit me but, he grounds me from m mom,grounds me from my facewash,Qtips,hair straightner,sweater and more. He drinks everyday and yells at me for no reason. He puts me down all the time like 24 seven. All I want is for me to live back with my mom. I hate my dad and alwaysa will.

[tickle]

Well you really don't ask a question, but I understand. Your mom is taking the right approach to gain custody of you, and I hope your life will straighten out being with your mom in a kinder environment.

Tick

[answerme_tender]

Blake,

We cannot pick our family members, sometimes everything turns out great, and sometimes not so great. Unfortuantely your father has an addiction to alcohol and cannot pull himself out of the grips of that. Hopefully someday he will wake up and help himself.

But, you need to focus on the good, and that is Mom is trying her best to fix the situation the best she can. Your lucky, so when you do get back at Mom's try to make sure you appreciate all she has done!!

I know you think you hate your father, but remember he has an addiction, not an excuse but a reason. Just because a person becomes a parent, let alone an adult doesn't make them good at the job!! Keep in mind what you have witnessed so you never make your own child have to go through such a thing!!

Take care