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    jayyaj Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Jan 25, 2011, 08:26 AM
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    Fair Warning: Please use proper English, thread edited

    Our relationship ended last night and I am totally sad... she told me that she had another boyfriend while we are still OK. I can't get mad at her cause I really love her, she said that she was really guilty for what she did and she set me free to avoid much pain on me and she said that she would come back on the time that she's ready, on the night that she broke up with me, she send me this message " just so you know, i broke up with him, i don't want to cheat on my self cause i still love you.. i am very sorry for what i did, i shouldn't did it to you". What do you think guys? Do I need to make some effort to get her back or just wait for her? What if she didn't come back? Thanks a lot.. Please help
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    #2

    Jan 25, 2011, 10:27 AM

    Fair Warning: Please use proper English

    What's your age ranges?
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    #3

    Jan 25, 2011, 06:47 PM
    I'm 21 y/o... sori I'm not that good in english!
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    #4

    Jan 25, 2011, 06:52 PM

    Is English not your first language? Your post looks like a lot of chat speak and is very difficult to make sense of.
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    #5

    Jan 25, 2011, 07:13 PM
    You it was not!I'm sori.. just please try 2 understand...
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    #6

    Jan 25, 2011, 07:23 PM

    First off, she's admitted to cheating, so the trust is broken. Even if you want her back, how can you trust her?

    Secondly, even if you do want her back, it doesn't mean she wants you back. She said sorry to you because she just wants to relieve herself of guilt.

    I suggest you leave her behind and go your own way.
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    Jan 25, 2011, 09:13 PM

    Its okay and very understandable to get mad with someone that has cheated on you. Of course you don't take her back. Get a female who won't get another guy then dump you. Have some dignity, and self respect for yourself. She sure doesn't.
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    Jan 25, 2011, 09:24 PM

    I will add to the warning, you are using chat talk, if you post using it again, I will just delete this post.

    I already deleted the one listed in the legal section

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