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    beck88 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 25, 2011, 09:56 AM
    EX on the rebound?
    I broke up with my girlfriend of one year after our second failed attempt of getting back together after a drunken stupid argument several months ago, since then I've started a casual relationship with a girl I met i.e sex with no strings, its pretty sweet, signed onto Facebook today to find that my ex is now in a relationship with one of her closest guy friends of several years, is this normal for girls on the rebound?
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    Jan 25, 2011, 10:19 AM

    Why does it even matter? She's your ex and it's none of your business now. Maybe she really is on a rebound and she will be "in a relationship" with someone else next week, maybe she will be with that person for the next 50 years.

    There's no pattern for this, plus, it's been months so she probably had enough time to heal and move on. Enjoy the casual relationship with the girl you're seeing. Good luck!
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    Jan 25, 2011, 10:24 AM

    Aren't you starting something new with someone else? Sounds like you're just as much on a rebound as well.

    Anyway, how would you know it's a rebound? Did she tell you that?

    She's your ex now, so none of what she does is any of your business anyway.

    Lastly, if he's such a good friend of yours, why didn't you know about this relationship before? Doesn't seem like such a great friend to me.
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    Jan 25, 2011, 10:44 AM
    Guys/gals, that wasent his question - his was is that normal for girls to rebound with guys they have known for years. And frankly I don't know, but if someone was to rebound - why not pick one close to you so that you don't need to go through the whole thing again. Or maybe she had a crush on him - only she really knows I'm sure. You could ask her to satify your curiousity!
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    Jan 25, 2011, 10:55 AM

    I couldn't really tell you if this is a rebound situation with your ex. You advised that you have been broke up for several months. So it could be that they started talking and she found out her feelings have changed from friendship to out and out thinking him one hot babe!!

    Now that does happen actually a lot in life. Where they start as just friends, and something happens and they start to notice each other differently, one thing leads to another. Sometimes this relationship last and some don't just liike any other relationship.
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    Jan 25, 2011, 12:05 PM
    Thanks guys I appreciate your thoughts and opinions

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