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    Jan 18, 2011, 07:20 PM
    I think my boyfriend likes my best friend
    Well me and my boyfriend have been datin for a while , and its thanxx to my best friend that were together . I was talking to him and her in separate convos and I was talking to her about him well she had me add them into one conversation so it was the 3 of us and she told him that we should go out and right after that he asked me out. Well since then I found he's been talking to her more than me , and I think she likes him too. But I know she's a true friend and even if she wanted him she wouldn't go and take him , and he's incredibly sweet and I love him so much and I know he loves me too . But still its been buggin me , just the little things. Like he went on facetime wit her when I've been waiting forever to see him (we live a couple hours away from eachother) and he told her that he failed grd 1 but never told me . Iddk if I'm overreacting or if something is really going on between them ?
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    Jan 18, 2011, 07:27 PM

    How long have you two been dating?
    This could be insecurity on your part. Don't let your insecurity ruin you relationship
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    Jan 19, 2011, 05:28 AM
    Hmm this is a tough one, you say that she basically got you both together? Well have they been friends before you knew him? This could be the reason, I mean they've probably been chatting to each other like this long before you even met him, just as friends, its true that boys and girls can be "just friends", if your really worried then ask your friend, ask her to her face so you can see her reaction, if she gets a bit embarrassed then chance are she might like him more than a friend, they sound like two genuine people from what you've described, and if they are attracted to one another but have never done anything behind your back then you will have a lot of thinking to do, your not going to want to be with a guy that is attracted to someone else, especially your best friend and your not going to want to lose your best friend either, so if he does like her maybe you and your friend should just try and forget about him, if that's the case! But otherwise you need to speak to your friend. :)
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    Feb 7, 2011, 07:23 AM
    Ok what you need to do is ask him , and stop asking yourself the qustion because you won't have the answer to it. Was your friend friends with your boyfriend before yaw went out ? And what's a while mean ? DOn't assume that your in love because your going threw this and asking yourself some questions that you should be asking the both of them. DOn't worry yourself and go find out the truth , if that's what you want to hear. If it is the truth get over it , iit probably wasn't meant to be anyway . God has better plans for you, so don't worry just ask and get over it so you would stop stressing yourself about it!

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