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    needanswersnoe Posts: 11, Reputation: 0
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    Jan 18, 2011, 09:25 PM
    Need help on relationship break information!
    So me and my boyfriend were fine and then he asks for a break saying that he's not sure if he's ready for a relationship or a serious one(in my opinion it's a little late after 7 months) and that he wasn't sure the direction I was going in life (with my career) and he says that he KNOWS loves me he's not sure if he loves me mentally and he isn't looking for anyone else and I'm pretty sure that part is true considering he still has our picture on his profile and it still says he's in a relationship but when ever we are around each other he shows me how much he loves me he's on my page all the time liking my statuses and my pictures. My question is.. How should I handle this break? Because I've ever had one before and it hurts.. SO.. much. I just don't no how to deal with one
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    Jan 18, 2011, 10:08 PM

    The best way to handle a break up is to leave the person alone for a while until you get over it, and accept things didn't work out for whatever reason. 7 months is not a long time, but it still is enough to be hurt from.
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    Jan 18, 2011, 10:19 PM
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    He said the same thing and he doesn't like it when I try talking to him when his friends come down(they live a few towns over) cause its "his friends time" and they came down on sat. and I didn't talk to him at all and he ended up calling ME 9 times
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    Feb 3, 2011, 08:50 PM
    There is no real good answer on how to handle a break up because everyone is different. You have to realize one thing though at one time you did not have him and you were fine then. What I have done in my life is start to look at thing as temporary. We don't own anyone and we can allow ourselve to get so attached to someone we lose it-- if they are gone. That's different from missing someone. Life is about choices not attachments because we came into this world alone and we leave alone. I agree you should leave him alone if a break up is imminent. Don't let him play w/ your emotions with this rollercoster mess. You need to focus on things that you enjoy and no human being can totally satisfy our every desire. That's why we don't fall in love we grow in love. Falling is temporary but growing last a life time. Don't look at it as a break up but a time to reflect and realize what's really important in life. A real man knows what he wants and he doesn't allow things to interfere w/ his love life. This may turn out to be the best thing he could have done. Stay strong and stand--you are stronger than you realize.

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