[monkey19]

So I'm 19 and my boyfreind is 20 and we are in love and we had lots of sex we both like it and now he told me that he isn't into sex as much as he used to and he says that its maybe because he just wants to love me and he knows he has me and he doesn't really wannt to have sex what does that mean I'm confused am I not giving it to him good or somthin??

[jeje409]

It means that he's matured and knows that relationships aren't all about sex... which they aren't.and doing something over and over all the time gets boring too.he's trying to let u know in an indirect way that he loves you and don't want you just for sex... let him love you :))

[monkey19]

Thank you :)

Is that normal with all relationships though??

Or does every relationship goes threw that?

[jeje409]

All relationships go through that hun... its always exciting the first few weeks... then you get comfy with each other and know neither one going anywhere... then you start to relax a little bit... maybe he wants to be romantic and loving and lead up to sex ;)

I wish all men I have been with in life were like your boyfriend

[monkey19]

You think so.. okay well sounds good

[jeje409]

:)) good luck

[monkey19]

Thanks:)

[jeje409]

Your welcome :))

[monkey19]

When me and my boyfreind have sex he cums way faster than me and he gets fusterated because I don't get to orgasm and he feels like he suckes and that he says when we are having sex all he thinks about is me orgasm ans makes him orgasm faster any sulotions fer this problem or why is this happening?

[jeje409]

Young and in expierenced... he needs to learn self control

[Fr_Chuck]

And as we always ask, what are your ages

[monkey19]

Do you think over time he will last longer lol because he used to last way way longer way before and now he doesn't? And he gets fustrated about it

I'm 19 and he's 20

[monkey19]

You that's what I told him that its OK and its not a big deal .