[bbyilyxo]

I currently was going to take my daughters father for support. He is not on the birth certificate and there is no proof he is the father. Now what if I decided not to show for the meeting? We did not have court or anything yet its just a meeting to see what we can agree on money wise. I feel as though I made a mistake and I honestly don't need his help. I make enough to support me and my daughter and I think I like it this way.

[cdad]

Its not about you its about the child. Go to the meeting. If you don't need the money to raise the child then use it for a college fund.

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes, first it is not "your" money it is the child's right,

So what threat has the father made to scare you out of this, or what myth have you heard.