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    smile.now Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 12, 2011, 03:21 PM
    Am I doing the right thing with my ex?
    I have been friends with her for an year then another year we been together as boyfriend and girlfriend,I was cool with her whole family mom,dad,her whole cousins,aunts,uncles,all her brothers I was the first boyfriend welcome with open arms.
    Well we had a fight we had and the same day we had the fight a girl wanted to get with me , so I said no to the that girl and told my girl about it and she just got really mad. The next day I apologize with a letter also saying its not all my fault neither both of us were happy at the end of the day. That's until the next day she went to school and she send me a text message saying its over & I told her are you serious and she said yeah, so I just said okay then.
    A week passed by I texted her telling how are things going she replied just here with my family and my new boyfriend. I said that's good and she said yeah I guess so, then I ended the conversation with I have to go, it turns out that she started going out with someone 2 days later we broke up (which is bad for her)
    Another week has passed by and I called her I said hey its me,she sounded happy and sleepy and said oh yeah hey, then I just told her ill talk to you some other day because you were sleeping and she said all right.
    Few weeks go by I told her cousin which I known for a long time to give her a note saying we both seem happy without each other so maybe we might be friends some day. Then he told me he will try,turns out that's she is always in a bad mood he told me. He told me he gave it to her so yeah.
    I haven't talked to her since she went out of the u.s. for vacation with her parents and she recently got back.
    Its been 2 months since we broke up...
    I'm looking for some advice from people if I should try to get back with her or not? Also if I doing the right things to keep some contact going on with her?
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    Jan 12, 2011, 03:41 PM

    Your doing much better than most people who just break up.

    You should not try to get back with her, and cut all contact with her, it's much easier that way.
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    Jan 13, 2011, 07:21 AM

    You've already done everything you can to get her attention, but it appears that she's lost interest.

    You'd be better off if you'd just move on without her.

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