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helpkaty · Jan 11, 2011, 05:51 PM

Hi. I'm really confused and I'm wondering if anyone can help me. I broke up with my ex about 2 years ago now but since then we nearly got back together twice but I put a stop to it and pushed hiim away. Even when we were together I treated him quite badly but I loved him and I still do. I really don't no why I treated hiim so badly. But now I want hiim bak but I no if I get hiim bak ill end up treating hiim really bad and breaking up wif him then wanting hiim bak. Can sumone tell me what's wrong with meeeee PLEASE. Thanks

awayandalone · Jan 11, 2011, 05:58 PM

If you are just going to get back with him only so you can break up and want him again, then stop now and save the guy the torture. Just leave him alone and stop contacting him. He is probably really confused and hurt by your actions. Continuing to treat him like that is only going to hurt him more. Let him move on and find someone who really wants to be with him and you take time to yourself to do things that make u happy.

Funsizest · Jan 11, 2011, 06:11 PM

Ohhh, Hunny, Hunny! Have I been there. For one thing, Yes, treating him badly, normally, isn't the way to go. Think about this... What does he do that makes you treat him the way you do? My Situation was that my ex was soooo darn annoying, that every time I would talk to him, it was like talking to a 10 year old, IF that. Find your reason. Another thing is... he sounds like he's kind of your punching bag... had an off day? Just going to go home and yell at my ex. That's how I was. I know you don't mean to be so harsh, but you just can't help it... something about him is just driving you up the wall and not in a good way either. Figure out what bothers you so much about him, and either tell him, or yes, move on. He's confused... He doesn't know why your so upset with him. He's kind of afraid to talk to you, even though you wants to so badly. Give him a chance to explain hiself and maybe you two can work it out somehow. Hope I've helped :D

talaniman · Jan 11, 2011, 10:34 PM

You treat him badly because you want attention, and he must be the only one to give it to you. I mean who else would put up with bad treatment, and keep coming back for more??

Its not just you, its him too. This is a very unhealthy relationship. You both have a screwed up view of a healthy love, and relationship, an I think maybe you both are really, really, YOUNG.