[Springtail]

He ended up chaeting on me and I didn't even do nothing but love him and I want him to just apologize and I can't even get that from him. He cheated because he was drunk but that is no excuse. I love him dearly but I'm not with him I am really sad. I mixed feelings. I don't know what to do he is being really mean to me and not even talking to me. One of my church people broke him down but I guess not hard enough because he hasn't said anything to me at all. He is living with this girl and she already had a kid and might even have his kid. I don't know what to do or what to think.

[Geoffersonairplane]

Being drunk is no excuse for cheating and at the very least shows immaturity, lack of respect (including self-respect) and lack of responsibility (the responsibility of being faithful to your partner).

Forget him, he is a cheater and basically a bad human being. He will probably do the same to the next woman. Sincerity is a very good quality in a person, he lacks this quality and most likely always will. The fact that he won't talk to you when he is the one who has done wrong speaks volumes about what kind of person he is.

Cut all contact and begin a process of healing from this one, try not to blame yourself because you don't deserve what he did to you. You will find someone genuine who can treat you the way you should be treated.

I am also a believer in what goes around comes around.

Take Care!

[momincali]

Cheating is about lack of character, not overindulgence of booze. Drinking didn't make him drink, him being a lowly selfish guy made him cheat and rest assured it will happen again, just don't let it be with you.

He can't be mean to you if you're not together cause you won't speak to him. Stay away, unless you enjoy being somebody's punching bag.

[talaniman]

The thing to do is leave this situation and don't look back, or even bother with this person ever again.