[allaboutmyman]

What would happen if you did not call him, text him, said no to dates and get-togethers?

Actually, I am not sure. Knowing the type of "friendship" we have, I'm sure he would communicate his concerns with me.

[Wondergirl]

Would you be willing to continue on as you two have been (and you not say anything to him at ALL about committing to you), meanwhile giving him another six months to do what he thinks he has to do. After that, if he won't commit, you walk away.

[allaboutmyman]

Wondergirl-

That's pretty much what I had in mind. I said I will wait until the 1 year mark and assess the situation and go from there.

[Wondergirl]

Wondergirl-

That's pretty much what I had in mind. I said I will wait until the 1 year mark and assess the situation and go from there.

Meanwhile, you don't say a word or bug him about a "relationship" or commitment.

(Will you come back and let us know what happens? Pretty please?)

[allaboutmyman]

(Will you come back and let us know what happens? Pretty please?)

Definitely!! I am now praying for strength to be able to not bug him (LOL). He is a very good person so that's why I am really trying to see this thing through.

[Wondergirl]

Come back to this thread, so we can recall who you are and the situation.

Too bad we don't have one address here so you could send us a postcard while on your vacation in April. :D