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khushh · Jan 3, 2011, 02:43 AM

Hey all, I met a guy who was a vendor of my company.I started liking him from the very first moment I saw him.I took help of my frns and went and talked to him,I got his visiting card so I texted him that it was nice meeting to you just to start a convesation.Then I started texting him very frequently and he also replied most of the times.I also asked him whether he has a GF but he said no.After one month of texting I could not stop myself and I just texted him that I like you and his response was that he was looking only for friendship.I know we don't know each other at all but still I like that guy badly and I am not able to convince myself that he has already rejected me.What should I do? Can he still come back to me? Is there any solution by which he can come back to me?

J_9 · Jan 3, 2011, 02:53 AM

Can he come back to you? He was never yours.

Wow, you really are pushing this. You need to back WAY off as you are coming off stalker-like.

If you like him you will leave him alone. If he has any feelings for you he will text you. Let him do the work now. You've already laid out the foundation.

khushh · Jan 3, 2011, 03:02 AM

But I really like him, I am ot able to concentrate on my work or anything else.I just keep thinking about him n also it seems that he is not intrested in me so he may not text me back.

J_9 · Jan 3, 2011, 03:04 AM

You don't even know him. Love takes time to develop. You may be infatuated with his looks, but you are not in love with him.

Most likely you creeped him out by texting him out of the blue and telling him you like him.

If he texts you back, and that's a big IF, it's most likely just to be nice. He already said he doesn't want a relationship.

khushh · Jan 3, 2011, 03:39 AM

But he told me that he will always reply me back if I text him and also anytime he come to visit my city he will meet me if it is cool with me may be he don't have any feelings for me right now I agree but at least he can consider me in near future.

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talaniman · Jan 3, 2011, 01:29 PM

If you keep acting like a love sick, desperate teen ager, he will never even consider a friendship with you that's for sure, because nothing turns a guy off more than a crazy acting pushy, female. Now act like you have some sense, and act like you know what friendship is, and how to control yourself. Then maybe he won't think you're a nut case.

Sorry to be so blunt, and harsh, but you needed a good shake to make you realize that your behavior is way out in left field some place. AND that scares us guys more than anything in the world. Get it together. If its not to late.