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    braindamage Posts: 79, Reputation: 4
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    Dec 24, 2010, 11:13 PM
    I think there's something wrong with me... then again I am a teenage girl
    Hi first off HAPPY HOLIDAYS! Second, lately I've been thinking of having a boyfriend. Which is weird because I never used to think I needed one. Now I pretty much yern for one. You know for the experience,the feeling, the everything. I do however know the pros and the cons.. and I mean I've had guys take in interest in me but not really ask me out. So its still hard. I just feel like there's something wrong with me because its always on my mind. And I hate it. I don't need it. I want to get rid of this feeling. Because I know I don't need a boyfriend. Ad;askdas I'm confusing aren't I? Lol sorry blog peoples. Ill get to my point faster and clearer. I just want to stop thinking of wanting a boyfriend.
    Thank you!
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    Dec 24, 2010, 11:42 PM
    Ha yah I'm the same way girl. :) My name is Alexis and I'm 16. I live in Minnesota. I had a boyfriend... boys have asked me out & I have had crushes, but I just don't feel like it's the right time for me. If you want a boyfriend then find a guy that is definitely respectful and doesn't want you for the wrong reasons. Just be yourself and find a guy that you have fun with :) Also guys like it sometimes when girls make the first move and flirt with them... so don't be afraid to approach your crush. :)
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    Dec 25, 2010, 08:31 AM

    There is nothing at all wrong with you, and don't worry about those feelings of wanting a boyfriend, you will never lose them because they come naturally as you grow older. Just don't let them get you carried away is all, and do things to have one, that you may not be ready for.

    Relax and enjoy growing and learning, about yourself, and coping with your feelings, and others you meet.

    Some user name you have, LOL, but I can tell there is nothing wrong with your brain!! :D
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    Dec 25, 2010, 01:32 PM
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    Lol its from a song that I love haha... and thank you. Very helpful indeed :D
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    Dec 25, 2010, 01:36 PM
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    Its good to know I isn't crazy lol. Yeah I think the main reason why I think about oh so often is because I've never had the experience of a boyfriend. Hmm thanks for the advice Alexis who's 16 and lives in Minnesota lol but if only I had self confidenc
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    Dec 25, 2010, 11:22 PM
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    Just try to think positive & Be yourself :) naturally you will come off as confident :)
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    Jan 2, 2011, 11:15 PM
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    Thanks.. all I can say is ill try my best :)
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