[Mintasaur]

Okay, there's this boy in my first and second periods at school who I really like. There's a lot of things I like about him, he's really sweet, etc, etc.

But as much as I like him, I don't feel like he likes me. Our eyes came in contact during second period one day, and I did the common thing, smiled, and he gave me sort of a half hearted smile back.

Anyway, I added him on Facebook and he accepted, and I was hoping to make better friends with him over winter break but he is going on a cruise :C

There's also a lot of other girls who like him, but they all seem to be prettier and more popular than me.

I talked to him one day at his locker, and I messed with his hat on patriotic day, and we always run down the hall yelling, "I WHIP MAH HAIR BACK AND FORTH I WHIP MAH HAIR BACK AND FORTH" while, well, whipping our hair back and forth xD! But that's about the only time we talk. :\

Hes friends with one of my friends, and she was going to drop some hints to him during the movie second period, but then he had a doctors appointment, then winter break.

How do I get his attention, befriend him, then hopefully capture his heart?

If possible, I would really like an answer before I go back to school. (January 5th, I think)

If it helps, I know he's dated people before, and I'm pretty sure he knows I've dated people before.

Also, his family moves around (he came from a city about two hours away, but before he came from germany)

Since there are other girls who like him, Im going to have competition. Any ideas on how to shine above these other girls without being an attention seeker or a hoe would be nice.

This has been bugging me for awhile now, so I REALLY appreciate your help! <3

I really really need an answer!!



Thanks (:

[JaneQuintanilla]

You sound really young to me. Maybe 13 or so?
I really don't think you should be focusing on boys right now. You should be trying in school. Boys are bad news! Relationships at your age shouldn't even be happening. But, to answer your question... Who cares if the girls are prettier.. If he really is a great guy then he should like you for you. Just be yourself around him and just go up to him and talk to him.

[Mintasaur]

Thanks :) Your close on my age. But I'm pretty balanced between boys, friends, and school and social activities (church and etc) so I feel like I can handle a boyfriend.

[ChatterBox14]

lol sounds like me :L you seem like a person with a fun and amazing personality your funny and not too overly serious, maybe he does like you [maybe not romantically but stiil ;)] how old are youc can I ask? I'm 16 by the way so we may have a better understanding :) (no offence to any older/yonger people) just be yourself, maybe he feels overwhelmed with the attention he gets from gilrs who just see his outside his looks and his personality, but don't want to know anything else about him. Get to know him by being observant, what music does he like? Does he read? What kind of books? What films? Don't need to ask to notice this ;) listen to what he listens to, and start to slowly hint you like similar things. Don't be ashamed to disagree, guys likea challenge. Make as much eye contact as posibble but be mysterious as well. How long have you known him? And does he have any other close friends? X :) good luck XD

[Mintasaur]

Thanks! I'm 14 going on 15. :D

I actually talked to him for the first time because he noticed I was reading one his favorite books (The Lightning Thief) I know he's a bit of a loner. Thanks again :)