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    Dec 16, 2010, 02:58 AM
    I am scared of sex , pregnancy and delivery
    Help me to get rid of this... I mean my fear of sex and delivery pain...
    I got married 2 yrs back
    Still I'm a virgin...
    I'm a girl... 28yrs old
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    Dec 16, 2010, 04:01 AM

    Your husband must be a very patient man. We can't help you here, but I would suggest you take visit to your doctor to be referred to the proper specialist to help you with this problem.

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    Dec 16, 2010, 06:27 AM
    In your other post about how a husband should treat a wife when she is suffering during menstruation, we all thought you were the husband!
    Please Answer below: are you afraid of sex because it leads to pregnancy, or because of another reason? You can solve that first fear by using birth control. Please don't let religion get in the way.
    As for fear of pain on delivery, either don't have children, find a way to conquer the fear, or adopt.
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    Dec 16, 2010, 08:51 AM

    We all have some unreasonable fears that haunt us, but if you've been married for 2 years and still haven't had sex, I think it's time to talk to a therapist to get to the bottom of your fears.
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    Dec 16, 2010, 10:14 AM

    I would really like to know what your husband has to say (if you still have one) about your dislike and fear of sex. I can't see how you would last two years in this situation and not seek professional help if you do love your husband.

    No, actually you are not a 'girl' any longer, you are a woman who should be mature and healthy and facing these fears and the problems that go along with it, head on.
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    Dec 17, 2010, 03:03 AM
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    Thank you for all your answers
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    Dec 19, 2010, 12:40 PM

    Why do I think this I a guy asking about his wife??
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