[despreateneed23]

Well you see we dated for almost 7 months and I had fallen in love with her and she me according to her. Well we didn't argue very much. She had cheated in past relationship[s but said she never did on me but I found it hard to believe her. The first 2 months were very difficult she had spent them with her ex and we didn't get to see each other for school ad just gotten out for summer well we survived we argued a lot always her ex's doing, we broke up but got back together either the next day or 5, 10 minutes later. Well the next few months went fine didn't argue at all and she came over and we did something's. We promised to love each other forever and always! And I planned to keep it. We had already talked about after high school moving to Florida and getting a beach house and living together,having kids, getting married all that stuff. Well we began to argue and fuss and fight and believe the wrong things and don't get me wrong I never cheated on her ever and I never would! But don't mean the urge wasn't there. Well I broke up with her cause her ex had told me something and I believed it and didn't bother asking her about it like I had done in the past with those things, well it came down to me breaking up with her and then later that day I had apologized for and told her it was my biggest mistake of my life and I believe it was I truly do! Well she had met this other person and they started talking at first they thought they were related but it turned out they weren't so about a week after my stupidity she broke up with me Halloween night and started with the other person which is fine but while they were going out we still did things and we still loved each other but its been almost a month since we've done anything and we have fallen apart and she does fell the same but don't but I feel the same as I always have and always will what do I do I can't get hurt I mean I told her that she had my heart and she could keep it which each time I think of her with her new girlfriend it hurts and I cry! I want her back but can't have her back...

[talaniman]

So she is cheating on this guy with you like she has done others? Or did she cheat on you and jumped to him? Look guy, leave her alone and get a grip on yourself because she ain't that into you, well obviously not just you. Even if she was she is doing her thing when she isn't doing it with you so don't be stuck on someone that's not stuck on you, just you.

Like you said you can't have her back, so stop doing things with her.

[ironhide262]

Well, your story is a bit hard to follow and all over the place.

But the pattern is pretty clear... some arguing followed by a breakup, her running into the arms of someone else, you hanging around missing her until she comes back to you where you are waiting with open arms... rinse and repeat!

How long would you like this craziness to go on for? Would you say the both of you are made for each other?

It's time to get off the ride and move on. Find someone you are more compatible with.