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Dec 10, 2010, 08:05 PM
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Why Won't He Give It Back?
Ok Well HE Broke Up With ME On a Friday
I returned everything Back What he ever gave to me..
And On A Tuesday I Ask For My Necklace Back
(That I Gave Him For Our 1 Month Relationship.. )
At first He gave me a face that Said " Why?" But He remained silent And He Said He Would Bring It On Wednesday So I waited for it but I got nothing back The Next Day I Didn't asked For It
But He Just Keep Doing own his thing.. & Thursday I Did ask Him and He Ignored the Question but I repeated myself and he said He will bring it and Until Now No Necklace
I know he's not forgetting because I know him he doesn't forget things ( one time I left something in his pocket to hold and he gave right back the next day with asking him I EVEN FORGOT about it)
So... What is Up with this guy?
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Dec 10, 2010, 09:12 PM
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What's up with you more like it?
It's a necklace you gave someone when you were in a relationship.Did you give it to him with the terms and conditions that "if the realtionship ends i want this back?"... No you didn't. So basically tough ti**ies.
Just because you gave everything back doesn't mean he has too. Its not worth the drama.
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Welbeing Expert
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Dec 10, 2010, 09:37 PM
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Isn't the point of giving someone something (a gift) something that they get to keep?
After all, you gave it to him.
Frankly, I thinks it's rude to give him back the gifts he gave you.
Just forget about it and move on.
Just make sure that you make the next boyfriend sign a contract for giving all of the stuff back if one breaks it off with the other...
That was sarcasm by the way.
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Expert
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Dec 11, 2010, 06:48 AM
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Forget the necklace and leave him alone. What are you mad about th break up, and want to keep the drama going over gifts? Let it go, and move on.
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Dec 11, 2010, 07:52 AM
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Don't expect to get the necklace back at all. When you give someone a gift, it no longer belongs to you.
Forget about HIS necklace and move on.
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Dec 12, 2010, 08:16 PM
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Comment on kaka67's post
So NOT Worth The Drama... :p
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Dec 13, 2010, 05:12 AM
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Yep that's right... keep moving on... what's a necklace compared to your happiness??
Good Luck
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Dec 15, 2010, 12:31 PM
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What Is He Doing?
Ok I'm Totally Confused With My- Ex
(This May Sound Obsessed BUT I'm Not)
But we share a World History class
In the morning,and whenever he walks in the classroom
He Always Wearing A Jacket I Loved On Him I even Told him, " Hey Babe, I Think you look cute with this jacket, i really like it"
But ever since we broke up he hasn't worn anything back that one or a black on that I also liked but what I don't get is that he has favorite one which is a red one and it's he fav color and everything&other ones too but why that ONE jacket?
I asked 3 Of My Close guy friends
Friend 1: I'm obsessed with him, let him go..
Friend 2: That he participially mocking me that he's saying "oh ha ha ha i know i can get you back easily"
Friend 3: Deep Inside He still likes you but he wants Me to say something first..
What is Trying to tell me really? Does he want to fix things? Or is just wearing it to piss me off?
I'm so confused... help!
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Full Member
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Dec 16, 2010, 04:09 AM
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Friend 1: I'm obsessed with him, let him go..
I vote for that one ^^^^
None of your business what he wears or why. He is not part of your life anymore.
Im sure the jacket wearing isn't some type of subliminal message that he wants you.
He broke up with you. Stop obsessing and get a life.
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Expert
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Dec 16, 2010, 07:28 AM
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Friend 1: I'm obsessed with him, let him go..
Sometimes our own feelings, and wants and needs, have us tripping on everything a person does, and looks for hidden meaning in everything.
Your mind may be playing tricks on you. You like this drama though, I think, and maybe it's a way to cope with the break up for you, not a good one, but understandable because, you have to see him every day still.
Being in a class everyday with an ex does make it harder to focus elsewhere because, it keeps stirring up old feelings and memories, but eventually, those feelings fade when your focus, and interests change to other things.
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Dec 16, 2010, 12:20 PM
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Comment on kaka67's post
Ohh gee...
Thanks? Stop obessing and get a life?
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Full Member
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Dec 16, 2010, 01:06 PM
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Sorry if I was a bit harsh but really... his jacket??
As Talaniman said much more politely then I did:
 Originally Posted by talaniman
those feelings fade when your focus, and interests change to other things.
See things for what they are, not what you think they are.
(kaka rule number 1.. Hehe) :p
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Mar 7, 2012, 01:14 PM
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OK here is the deal murderlovekiss. You sound like a sweet girl, but you really need to get over this guy! You only lasted a month and than he broke up with you! Why spend your time chasing after a guy that doesn't love you when you can spend that time chasing after a guy that really will love you! Forget about this guy he isn't worth YOUR time. I am sure if you look you could find a really nice guy that will love you, and no cody carter will not love you ;)
Signed:
-the boy that really love you
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Ultra Member
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Mar 7, 2012, 07:11 PM
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It is a little pathetic how you are overanalyzing EVERYTHING... let it go. He is nothing of yours, and you are nothing of his, let it go.
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