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    JoeCanada76 Posts: 6,669, Reputation: 1707
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    #21

    Jan 23, 2007, 02:50 AM
    First : Yes, she sounds very psychotic, and a drunk.

    Second: She sounds very confused. Even with that said, there has to be a game involved. There would not be that kind of behaviour if there was not a game being played.

    Third: You need a good wake up call. You went against the rules of no contact, look where you ended up. You ended up getting played with again.

    Fourth: NO MORE CONTACT, NO MORE.

    Fifth : What should you do? DO ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!

    Sixth : I have told her in our conversations that if she wants to try again that's cool, if not that's okay too cause I can't make her like me.

    Why the hell would you say that? All this crap should be over and done with and all your doing is making it worst for yourself.

    Seventh: No More Contact. No more phone calls. No more of anything. You need to let it go. You need to stop going back and forth. You do not want to be with this phychotic weirdo do you? She will be nothing but trouble and has been nothing but trouble. STAY AWAY FROM HER. MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. Do not give her another chanch to screw with your head. Oh you, if she tries to contact you again, get her number blocked. If she tries to see you while she is drunk, get her arrested. If she is determined to make you feel like the walls are caving in and she just won't leave you alone maybe a restraining order would set her in her place.

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    #22

    Jan 23, 2007, 04:34 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by trent25
    I had the post that got ripped apart by everyone including Chuff.

    So I do the no contact thing and after a week and a half she calls me. I answer to see what she wants and we end up talking for an hour and a half. She texts me after the call saying it was great to talk to me and that she would like to go to coffee. She doesn't call me the next day, I call to see if she is going so I can make other plans. She said she had been busy and had to work the rest of the night. I said whatever and went out with my friends. She called me drunk that night about forty times and started yelling at me and cussing when I wouldn't go pick her up. She kept saying how much she wanted to see me but that I don't mean anything to her cause I wouldn't pick her up. The next day she calls me twice and apologizes. She then texts me that night to see what I am doing and then calls me again before she goes to bed. So I take these as good signs and lay myself out one more time, I ask to see if she wants to hang out the next day. But then she tells me she is going to bed early. I accidently dial her number after I go to a movie by myself and realizing this I just say "wanted to say good night". I know this was a mistake especially since she just said no to going out again. But it was an accidental call. So then she calls me half an hour later and says she is mad at me for waking her up. I apologize and get off the phone. I haven't talked to her since. I have no idea what the hell is going on. Is this girl psychotic? Does she want to get back together or is she playing games? Is she confused? Is she putting me on the backburner? When we talk she always asks what i am doing and if there are any other girls. Are these legitimate feelings she has but can't act on them or is she crazy and playing games? What should I do next? Better to give her space and go on with my life? Why is she calling me? If she lost interest in me and broke up, why is she interested now? Or is this just a power trip? I am really confused here. Haven't dealt with many young girls. I have told her in our conversations that if she wants to try again that's cool, if not that's okay too cause I can't make her like me. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
    She sounds psychotic. I agree that you should move on. Hopefully find someone who will accept you as you are, someone who won't play mind games with you. If she still decides she wants you in her life, maybe she can pull herself together & work hard to win back your love.
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    #23

    Jan 23, 2007, 05:56 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by trent25
    So I take these as good signs and lay myself out one more time
    Good signs? Good, if you like getting jerked around and messed with, as you found out. Learn your lesson and leave this manipulator in the dust.
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    Jan 23, 2007, 11:53 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by trent25
    I had the post that got ripped apart by everyone including Chuff.

    So I do the no contact thing and after a week and a half she calls me. I answer to see what she wants and we end up talking for an hour and a half. She texts me after the call saying it was great to talk to me and that she would like to go to coffee. She doesn't call me the next day, I call to see if she is going so I can make other plans. She said she had been busy and had to work the rest of the night. I said whatever and went out with my friends. She called me drunk that night about forty times and started yelling at me and cussing when I wouldn't go pick her up. She kept saying how much she wanted to see me but that I don't mean anything to her cause I wouldn't pick her up. The next day she calls me twice and apologizes. She then texts me that night to see what I am doing and then calls me again before she goes to bed. So I take these as good signs and lay myself out one more time, I ask to see if she wants to hang out the next day. But then she tells me she is going to bed early. I accidently dial her number after I go to a movie by myself and realizing this I just say "wanted to say good night". I know this was a mistake especially since she just said no to going out again. But it was an accidental call. So then she calls me half an hour later and says she is mad at me for waking her up. I apologize and get off the phone. I haven't talked to her since. I have no idea what the hell is going on. Is this girl psychotic? Does she want to get back together or is she playing games? Is she confused? Is she putting me on the backburner? When we talk she always asks what i am doing and if there are any other girls. Are these legitimate feelings she has but can't act on them or is she crazy and playing games? What should I do next? Better to give her space and go on with my life? Why is she calling me? If she lost interest in me and broke up, why is she interested now? Or is this just a power trip? I am really confused here. Haven't dealt with many young girls. I have told her in our conversations that if she wants to try again that's cool, if not that's okay too cause I can't make her like me. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
    She is playing you, absolutely, no doubt.
    Try to ignore her for a bit, you'll see, she'll call even more and try to get you, but once she does, she'll go back... drama queen + a player.
    Don't let her disrupt your life, its her loss now, and you need to move on.

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