[carlrod]

I have been communicating with my fiancé for 2 years in the Philippines. I visited her on 14 November 2010 she requested that we get married when I came there she was in a desperate rush to marry. Prior to the marriage I was there 15 day and during that time she did not show any affection at all and rejected all my approches. We had sex once and it was the worst I have ever had she was upset because I would not shout her friend a manucure and hair treatment I had just paid for treatment for both of them 3 days prior. The friend was constanley withn us she is 45 years old and my fiancé 20. I began to suspect that they were in a lesbian relationship. My fiancé ate her breakfast with her that was delivered to our room she would take her breakfat to the room of her friend, shower there, dress there she spent little time with me. Both women becam agitated when separated from each other. I suppose I was coersed into marrying her. It seemes that the older friend was controlling her. Even though she never attempted to be with me she still said that she loved me. At the marage ceremonie she refused to kiss me when the judge said you may kiss the bride. When taking the vows she started to giggle the judge said to her it not a game? I suppose I am very wealthy and it did not bother me I thought I would play their game. I can't see any benefit for her rmarrying me. She committed Fraud by being in a lesbian relationship and not telling me. The LAW for simplicity approaches the relationship of two Females where it is obvious that it is not a normal relationship that most women have in the Western World therefore determines that a lesbian relationship is who you are emotionally, physically and sexually attracted to. She contracted said marriage in bad faith therefor she is not entitled to any property setlement under the philipino Law. Maby she did not know this. I said that I was going to postpone the wedding for a while when her friend asked me to finalise the last payment for the reception which cost peanuts. I said that the sexual contact with my fiancé was the worst I have ever experienced it was then that the older friend starte to shout at my fiancé in tagolong so I could not understand what was being said. I gathered that she was very angry with her I believe that if properly investigate on would find that my fiancé was coersed into the marriage. The parent seemed concerned about there daughter as I am 20 years older but look much younger and I am very well presented slim and handsom so I am not your average person prowling the Philippines for sex. We were married on the 1 December 2010 she refused to consummate the marriage yes I am a fool. My fiancé was avery poor girl with a pair of shorts to he name rom the provences Dipolog when I first knew her my continual suport allowed her to move to cebu over the last 2 year she was able to groom herself and even I was surprise she turned into a fablious looking young girl my friend that have seen photos asked me is she a model . She is not entitled to any money or property due the bad faith law. There is evidence in the councelors at the registrey office and they confirm that this girl does not love me. If she was a professional she would have made love to me easy with no problems. This is not the same girl I have know for two years. The psycholigist friend of mine that gave a reprot on her and her friends strange behaviour ( romantic Friendship) and the anexitey they displayed when separated. However it has been sugested that some one may be controlling the girl and she does love you and is trying to protect you. She has said I will come to Austrtalia and show you that I do love you I won't have my friend with me. I can't see any benefit for all this game maby they did not know about the bad faith rule. Apparently when there exist Romantic Friendship it is common for the wife to want the friend to come on the honey moon and that was put to me by my wife. Every professional that I talk to has never heard of such a complicated relationship. There may be some form of mental illness. I know I was crazy to go along with this. Has any one information that I am not aware of.

[smoothy]

Personally... I'd file for an annulment ASAP.. and barring that, Divorce. Sounds like she was looking for a sucker to get a free ride to a new country. And she found you.

Sounds to me like you got played... bigtime. Let me guess... during that two years you were in Australia and she was in the Philippines? Right? Easy to say anything on the internet... even on the phone. Much harder to play up the lie in person.

You got took... Incidently... you can do this from Australia... you don't HAVE to do it from the Philippines. Better go ditch the con-artist ASAP. THe longer it goes on the more she is going to get out of you.