[mattmatt]

I fell truly in love for the first time in my life and I no that because I felt totally different to her than any other girl Ive ever seen. We dated for about a month but we also broke up 4 times in that month. The first time was because she thought she was hurting me but the next day we got back together. The second and third time was 2 days in a row and I broke up with her because everyone is saying things that aren't true but I never listened to anyone of them until her best friend told me that she was cheatin on me but later that day she told me that she was lieing and me and her have known each other for a long time. Anyway we got back together that night and the day after her brother told me a lot of thing to git me to break up with her and since me and him were really close I believed him but later that day I knew that he wonted us apart so me and her worked things out and got back together. Well the next weekend came and both of us lost feelings for each other so we talked to people and they said that we should take some time off from each other so we did and we also agreed to see other people so the next day she when out with this dude that we both know but I also got feelings for her that day and she says that she likes him but loves me and every time we broke up we both was hurt and we both cried and yes I know a dude crying but I love her that much. Now we are just friends but I won't to be more than friends but I also don't won't to hurt her anymore and yes I know I'm young and that we haven't known each other a long time but I still feel something special about her that is really good. But my point is what should I do?

[stinaann]

Well, it seems that you and this girl, I'm going to call her "stacey" are having a lot of issues.
I personally think that you should use what you know to judge Stacey. A lot of people will try to breakup any relationship you may get in, rather it's a girl you REALLLLLY like, or someone you barely have feelings for her. One of the keys to a good relationship is trust, you BOTH need trust. If you truly "love" her. You need that. Every relationship has rough spots and always will. If you can make it threw them you can get threw much together (: