[zaine08]

I have been in a 4yr relationship. She had a daughter from her previous marriage, whom she is still married to. We had a son together, so it was me her and the 2 kids. We were living in sask for 2 yrs then moved to toronto with our kids. About 4months ago she had gone back to sask to visit her family alone, when she returned, she kicked me out the apartment the same day and said I can visit the kids tomorrow. When I went there the next day she had already taken off with the kids to sask. Since then I have no contact with the kids. I also heard she's living on her own going to school, while the kids are with her mom, whom I really don't trust at all. I want my son back, I tried talking to her, but her arrogance and hate of no reason, is being cruel can someone tell me if I have a possibility to win in court and if she's allowed to take my son in that form

[zaine08]

My ex has taken off with my son to another province about 4 months ago. I never cheated her, abused her, I gave up my existence for her and our kids. She had a daughter from her previous husband whom she's still married to. I raised her daughter then had a son with her. We moved from saskatchewan to toronto, we have been in a relationship for 4 yrs. She had gone to visit her family in saskatchewan, leaving me and the kids here in toronto. 3 weeks later when she returned she greeted me with a "get out of the house" I don't no why and what led to this. She had told me to come see the kids tomorrow. That night my lungs had collapsed so I was hospitalized, I checked myself out the hospital so I can go see my kids in the morning, when I got to the apartment, she was already gone with the kids to saskatchewan. Its been 4 months I have contact with my kids. Why I have waited this long without doing anything, because I thought my family will come back, because I never did anything to jeprodize my relationship with her or my kids. Now its clear her intent is not to come back, and I want my son back. She now is living alone doing school, while her mom is raising my kids. I don't trust her mother because she has bad gambling habbits. Can someone tell me if I have a chance to win in court? And is she allowed to take my son like that? She tells me you want your son, get a lawyer. People tell me your chances are slim to none, judge always rules in a mothers case. I don't no what to do and how to do it

[cdad]

If she is still married then the child may not be legally yours. That is the first step in filing anything.


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[Fr_Chuck]

Were you listed on the birth certificate ?

But instead of wondering what the courts may or could do, you need to file in the court. You will get at least court ordered visits.

[ScottGem]

Chuck's right! Why ask what will happen in court? Why aren't you talking to an attorney and finding out what you need to do?

If you are the father, you stand a good chance of getting visitation. But you need to fight for it.