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    4thqtrknlz Posts: 6, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 22, 2007, 11:46 AM
    Should I let it go
    My girl friend and I were together for 4 years discussed getting married and having kids and everything unfortunately I was very imature and not very reliable and I stressed her out a lot and made her cry I really love this girl with all my heart and didn't want to let it go she always told me when she was fed up that would be the end and I kind of new it but couldn't change at the time so she told me she was done and that I should move on and I couldn't let her tekll me that I kept telling her I wouldn't let us go then realized I sounded like a and then called her back and told her I was with it lets move on and for get about us andf she said lets keep in touch what should I do and what does this mean
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    Jan 22, 2007, 03:30 PM
    It means get a life and move on and leave her alone.
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    Jan 22, 2007, 03:36 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman
    It means get a life and move on and leave her alone.
    Talaniman, said it best. It means to get a life, and move on and leave her alone. Very simple. Nothing to be confused about. Leave it alone and let it go.

    Learn from this situation and when you meet somebody in the future don't make the same mistakes.

    Joe
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    Jan 22, 2007, 03:46 PM
    Yes you should let it go.
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    Jan 22, 2007, 04:11 PM
    Situations like these aren't about letting go. I've been having a hard time "letting go" of my last relationship, but the reality of the matter is that this isn't your decision to make. You have nothing to let go of, it's already gone. The real question is how long will you waste before you realize this?
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    Jan 22, 2007, 07:12 PM
    Loving her isn't enough. To be honest, if you refused to grow up, behave civilly with her, than you didn't really love her. She's gone. She's free of the stress now, let her enjoy that and learn your lesson that all girls won't take your crap.
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    Jan 23, 2007, 10:30 AM
    Don't beat yourself up about it either, events like these are what makes us realize we want to be mature for ourselves, to prevent getting into this situation again. If you're lucky, she'll appreciate that, if not, somebody else will.
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    Jan 23, 2007, 10:35 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Jesushelper76
    Talaniman, said it best. It means to get a life, and move on and leave her alone. Very simple. Nothing to be confused about. Leave it alone and let it go.

    Learn from this situation and when you meet somebody in the future dont make the same mistakes.

    Joe
    Yes, let it go but make sure you learn from your mistakes.
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