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Men1991 · Dec 3, 2010, 09:26 PM

I am just so confused on what to do... I can't get my ex out of my head . My feelings for her is still strong but I don' t know what to do...

Can anyone help me...

Homegirl 50 · Dec 3, 2010, 10:02 PM

How long has she been your ex.
These things take time. Are you busy doing other things or just sitting around thinking of her?
It helps to be busy. Get a life apart from her.

Chocolateriver · Dec 4, 2010, 11:51 AM

Are you dating anyone? Is she dating anyone? You can tell her you still have feelings for her even if she is going out with someone. If she doesn't have feelings for you it will help you get over your feelings for her. If she does have feelings for you and she is trying to get over them, you can help each other together. And if she isn't tying to block out her feelings then you still have ac hance of getting back together. It sounds silly but try it.

Homegirl 50 · Dec 4, 2010, 12:02 PM

I think no contact is best. If she broke up with you, the best thing for you to do is to move on and having no contact with her will help in the healing process.
What were the circumstances of the break up?

Men1991 · Dec 6, 2010, 10:27 PM

@ homegirl: the reason for the break up was long distance, I know that long distance relationships are hard , but she wanted me to find someone closer , because she want me to have someone to hold and could be with me when I needed. But all I want is her , no one else.

@ chocolateriver: I know she still has feeling for me , as I do for her , we are still good friends and we do talk phone , and I can just sense in her voice that she wants to be with me and I want to be with her.

Homegirl 50 · Dec 7, 2010, 08:09 AM

I think you need to go No Contact.
There is no way she is wanting you to be with someone else so you won't be lonely unless she is being with someone else too. That is just my opinion.
At any rate, stop talking to her and you both get on with your lives.

answerme_tender · Dec 7, 2010, 08:25 AM

Men1991,

Iam sure that she still cares for you and you her. You have said that she wants you to have someone closer to hold,etc. I agree with Homegirl she has someone else herself.

Have you thought that reason she is pushing this is because she has found someone closer that she would like to try and have relationship with! She wants to keep you as a friend, but wants her conscious clear to pursue something a little more substantial for her self. Now she can move on without guilt.

I would move on with your life. Get out with friends. If she really wants you to move on then she won't be upset with you trying to find another girl!! Good luck