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    Dec 2, 2010, 06:53 PM
    Looking for help on getting my father to take a paternity test
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    Dec 2, 2010, 06:55 PM

    Why? To prove he's your biological father? Or to prove he's someone else's bio-father? Please tell us more.
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    Dec 2, 2010, 07:03 PM
    I need help in getting my father to take a paternity test
    My mother was 13 when she had me and my father was 18 he left to get his career on the road and never looked back. I know who my father is but he want answer any of my letters or respone to me. All I want now is a paternity test done so that I can have closure. How do I get one? He is in ca and I am in va
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    Dec 2, 2010, 07:11 PM
    Yes to see if he is my father my mother was 13 at the time when she had me he was 18 and he just went on andleft to fulfill his dreams and he promised my mother that he wouldcome backbut he never did. I just want closure and my father a lot has happen to me in my younger years and I just needed him. How can I get him to take one?
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    Dec 2, 2010, 07:28 PM

    Where is he?
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    Dec 2, 2010, 10:50 PM
    Ca he is a nfl player he was drafted and never looked backed we had to live in my moms car we where on welfare and he never looked back
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    Dec 2, 2010, 10:54 PM
    He is in orange ca and married with 2 boys I tink he is afraid that charges will be brought on him for having sex with my mom at such a young age, Im just angry because I lived a unhappy and damaging life. I was raped and homeless and hungry some nights he said he would come back I moved to san diego ca just so I could be close to him or find him nothing I wrote letters to is job to the team nothing. What can I do.
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    Dec 2, 2010, 11:31 PM

    I believe he would have to be court ordered to undergo a DNA test. I'm not a lawyer, but someone familiar with legal matters will come online to advise you. Have you talked with an attorney yet?
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    Dec 2, 2010, 11:46 PM
    No please have someone cantact me
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    Dec 3, 2010, 02:50 PM

    Is your mom aware your doing all of this? What has she said about it? It sounds more like your trying to pursue a vandetta then it is a true interest in finding a parent.
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    Dec 4, 2010, 07:33 AM

    How old are you?
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    Dec 4, 2010, 08:02 AM

    Your mother should have contacted her local child support enforcement agency when you were born. Depending on how old you are, she could still do this. If they believe that he may be your father, they can require him to undergo testing.

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