Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    juvps's Avatar
    juvps Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
    New Member
     
    #1

    Dec 2, 2010, 01:07 AM
    How to know if my female booss like me?
    I like my female boss I want to know if she likes me to how I can find that about this
    Curlyben's Avatar
    Curlyben Posts: 18,514, Reputation: 1860
    BossMan
     
    #2

    Dec 2, 2010, 02:14 AM
    It's NEVER a good idea to fraternise in this manner with a superior.
    Andrew916's Avatar
    Andrew916 Posts: 182, Reputation: 33
    Junior Member
     
    #3

    Dec 2, 2010, 03:42 AM

    There can be serious consequences. If you do enter a relationship with your boss you are jeopardizing BOTH your jobs. If you really want to date her that bad you need to leave your job but I don't think it'd be worth it, It's best to not even pursue it.

    -Drew
    I wish's Avatar
    I wish Posts: 5,296, Reputation: 2030
    Family & People Expert
     
    #4

    Dec 2, 2010, 08:21 AM

    Be extra cautious when it comes to office romance. If things don't work out, your situation at work can go downhill in a hurry.

    I would say, just be her friend if possible. If you really want a romantic relationship, make sure you're either in a different department that is unrelated or be in a different company all-together.

    You don't want to jepordize your job for something that might not work out.
    JBeaucaire's Avatar
    JBeaucaire Posts: 5,426, Reputation: 997
    Software Expert
     
    #5

    Dec 2, 2010, 03:22 PM

    It's funny how often we, me included, jump to answering the question the OP didn't ask, with good intention, without actually even answering the question they did ask.

    Since you've been severely warned about the merits of office-dating, I'll pass on that and just address the question, "How do I know if my boss likes me"?

    Take out the word "boss" and replace it with any female pronoun and the answer is probably still the same... you ask her.

    Since she IS your boss, that may be awkward, but it's awkward you have to deal with. If she wasn't your boss, it would be awkward asking this to any girl, just awkward in other ways.

    So, just tough it up and ask her in a way you hope won't cost you your job if the answer is "no".

    You: "What's your position on coworkers dating?"
    Her: "I don't know if it's a good idea or not, company policy is.....(blah blah)".
    You: "No, I meant what is your position on you dating a coworker...?"
    dontknownuthin's Avatar
    dontknownuthin Posts: 2,910, Reputation: 751
    Ultra Member
     
    #6

    Dec 9, 2010, 04:11 PM

    Ask her is she's happy with your work and leave it at that. Anything personal would be completely inappropriate as others have stated well already.

Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions

 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

18 year old female dating a 16 year old female in Virginia [ 9 Answers ]

Im a 18 year old female and my girlfriend is 16 we have been together for 6 months. My birthday is in July and her birthday is in October. Is it OK if we are together?

Why do my 2 female hamsters keep fighting w/ my smallest female hamster? [ 23 Answers ]

I got two female Siberian (Campbell) hamsters a few months ago. I had them mated with my friend's male Siberian Hamster. After a few weeks both of them had babies. Of course I separated them until such time that their babies were old and big enough for all of them to be in the same cage. The only...


View more questions Search