[ginmed31]

My fiancée left me about 2 months ago and its been quite devastating. I had been with her for about a 8 months and engaged for about 6 months. 4 months ago her father( the only parent she has) was sent to receive a biopsy on a lump in his mouth. It turned out to be cancer and had to go into surgery immediately to remove lump and repair his mouth, with Chemo and radiation to fallow. This all happened in the last 2 months of our relationship. As the weeks past the relationship deteriorated. I soon found myself in the role of the scapegoat, where there wasn't a single minute of tension or arguing. Before this we were best friends and nothing or anyone could come between us. We prided ourselves on being a "team," and being able to get through issues flawlessly. She began to push herself away from me, and me thinking she needed space I gave it to her. About one week before Chemo. She dropped the bomb on me and told me she on longer loved me and she couldn't stand the sight of me. I freaked out because I never in a million years figured it would have come to this, NEVER!! It was so bad to the point when she went to return to me my clothing and thing she couldn't even see me, she just dropped them off. We have talked on the phone since the break up but she's constantly rushed and is a completely different person. I'm trying to move forward, meeting new people and dating but in the back of my mind it just doesn't feel right I still love her deeply. Should I try to continue to move forward or what, I have no effing clue.

[talaniman]

Its always a big red flag when events in our lives comes between couples and ends things. I think you need to leave her alone to deal with her own issues, and you move forward yourself.

[peregrina]

I agree with talaniman, it is painful but if your support didn't help then any issues are for her to resolve.